Editor’s Note: How easy it has become nowadays fro people to say the three sacred words. Wonder if its meaning has changed. Or does it still carry with it the purity of the soul? Our member iyerviji tells more. Tells us what you think here. 

Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable. 
Bruce Lee 

We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love. Its a game which two can play and both win by losing their heart

These are the things I learnt in married life about love. 

I thought love is looking for someone who has everything but learnt after some years of married life that money is not everything in the world, its to have time to spend with your loved one. Realised that we should not go for beauty because we are going to live with character of someone and not the beauty. Learnt that loving someone does not need a reason/ If we can explain why we love someone its not called love but its called like . Felt happy to know that the presence of absence both mean something to someone.

Got the assurance that any problems we have to face together. In love you need someone to accept you completely. Love never grows old it increases day by day/ Don’t wait to tell someone how much you love, how much you care because when they are gone, no matter how loud you shout or cry they wont hear any more

True Love is Trust, Romanace, Understanding, Excitement
Listening,Overcoming, Valuable, Everything 

Absence is the best presence. becuase if somebody is absent you miss them., and if you miss them that means they are present in your heart