hi all, please go through Husband Without Values - How To Manage? before this post. hear i need opinions. due to my unchanged husband behaviour(latest Sravan kumara) and my mother-in-laws acting, finally i decided to be separate from them. but i dont want to spoil my kids(5 yr & infant) child hood . so luckily apartment side by of my husband house got vacant. due to water problem, most of families got vacated from there. hear is my plan 1. i can bare rent and maintenance of that 1 bhk flat. so taking it. 2. hiring full time live in care taker for my kids and allotting that 1bhk bed room for her. 3. planning to do freelancing job in that flat(hall) with office setup when she is taking care of my 4 month old beside me. 5 yr old running in between houses. 4. big warning to husband about his get out talks and his parents acts. firmly saying that just because of kids i am staying near by. 5. finally no more SEX, no more house/cook management until he down his head about happened things. ofcourse for kids, i need to stay at husband house in nights and during their food preparation time. its kind of escaping from issues and trying to live my life along with privacy.kids play and shoutes are really disturbing my work. so my plan may give some peaceful work environment for me with out hurting their play zone in husband house. any comments?