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Relationship Hijack And Banter

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Sep 17, 2018.

  1. Rihana

    Rihana Finest Post Winner

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    So says the mirror or looking at old people in the family? : )

    Happy weekend.
     
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    When I had to ask that question "...who is the oddest of them all ?", I think about the dichotomy: bothersome-odd versus secretly-odd. And feel just fine. Perhaps I need to get older still.
    Yes. Happy weekend.
     
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    @Rihana, Your response-advice on that father misbehaving in old age is an excellent one. Self made old people are more likely to become ornery in old age: can't imagine anyone could have useful advice, or take instructions from doctors, daughters , and others, about keeping Blood sugar, BP under control.

    That OP's (@priyajagadeesh) father seems enamoured with money and investments, and bent on foisting the classic white elephant of a landed desi property on NRI son as well. And asking the child to finance that boondoggle too. Sad situation.

    The 10 point advisory to the money-enamoured mad, reminds me of Moses:

     
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    Amulet Finest Post Winner

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    Is this a scheme, a trap, to get the kind souls of IL to come out and post helpful suggestions for dealing with the malaise ?
    OR
    Is this for real ?
    When people have trouble counting, I'd be tempted to suggest a binge-watch of sesame street episodes of The Count.

    I had watched them all with my children.... and the Count haunts me now, long long after my children had got good at counting, and left home.
     
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    Since OP there was not willing to go with many many suggestions given there and hell bent in going with her desires of being his friend I did "Unwatch thread". Then after a couple of days to pass some time I thought I will go to that thread and read the replies. Could not find the thread. I searched in many ways, even in my alerts . Is it like once I unwatch a thread I can never go back ?
     
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    If you want, You can check any unwatched thread again but That dentist thread was deleted permanently from IL forums that's why you didn't find that thread.
     
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    Really? Was it a troll post ?
    Anyways I got to understand that I can watch a thread after unwatch.
    Thanks for the reply. :grinning:
     
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    Yes, you can definetly get alerts and follow any unwatched thread by just click on the option watch thread.
     
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    Intervene and do what?

    Job of admins is to maintain a forum where basic etiquette and rules are mostly followed in letter and spirit. Alleviating anxiety of readers or addressing dire self-destructive urges of posters is well beyond what they can do knowing only email address and IP address of the poster.
     
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