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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Nov 20, 2019.

  1. rgz

    rgz Gold IL'ite

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    I didnt quite count “count” it. I was reading your post and the word registered with the stars and when it was my turn to write, just used the same, and added the paranthesis to be funny. :flushed:
     
  2. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    We had a lovely thread about what all the ' h' in dh can stand for.
    Sorry my thread finding skills are really bad .
     
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    Nice to have the third edition of rihab thread.
    This is a very important thread .
    I think I have derailed enough threads for a lifetime and this thread is the rescue. Discuss without derailing guilt or silent curses from the op of the thread .

    Thanks @Rihana
     
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    Rihaaaana ji ! Thanks for starting this thread ! I swear on the eggs I had for breakfast, I will try to behave .
     
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    Shreema86 Platinum IL'ite

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    Lol, True this! Lesson learnt, remove strong opinions while doling out advice. By the time the poster reads it , they might have already calmed down ,
     
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    Thanks @Rihana for another season of hijack thread.

    Hope you all remember a recent post on divorce after 25 years due to PILS issue. Recently I met another Indian lady here, who divorced her h after 25 years of asexual marriage, with no love or care, and after kids graduated from high school. Her kids, born through ivf, even asked her to get out of the marriage. She , even though financially independent, stayed in marriage as she didn't want to hurt her Indian parents. Following divorce she met another white gentleman. He convinced her for another marriage. Her parents are no more. After 5 years of friendship finally they married this year (in her early fifties, by Indian standard life of a woman is over by this age). Her kids actively participated in their Indian style marriage ceremony as per photos on FB . She told me , now only she realized that this is the way a man should treat their wife. So happy for her.

    Look like these kind of exits from bad marriages are now a really.
     
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    How did I miss this thread :confused:
     
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    This has often crossed my mind.

    Some men see their wives as property and will see red at any infringement on their territory. A stranger who dares utter an unkind word is swiftly put in his/her place. Where does this proprietary sense go when his parents abuse his bride?
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    Boys who are totally incapable of making eye contact with a girl and exchange banal pleasantries are also able to get a wife through their parents' negotiated arrangement. This gratitude (finders' fee?) is what could make a husband allow his parents the liberties they take with his property.

    If the Man went ahead and through his own efforts, convinced a girl to throw her lot with him, even if he considers her his property, he'd be strongly against trespass.
     
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