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Younger Sister not accepting to get married

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by buvanak, May 8, 2013.

  1. flowerlady

    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear OP,
    Your sis is working so she is financially sound.She may marry after a few years, could be waiting to fall in love. Seeing the plight of married women in her family ,arranged marriage may not be on her agenda.
    She is enjoying her work, looking after Mom , let her be for the time being, when she finds a nice man she will marry.
    Don't give much thought to what people will say and force her into an arranged marriage.
    Forcing her on account of Mom is also wrong unless she agrees.
     
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  2. vabzee008

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    i dont know this might be helpful to you or not...

    my neighbour who's also a good friend of mine also had same situation,,
    as i was not a relative could see things more easily,,
    you just need to get relaxed, & give her some time,,
    she might be not clear in what she wants from life or cant be able to decide what to do further in life,,
    1st you should break her misbelief that ur mother dsnt love her,,
    ask your mother to gave up tea/coffee or anything she takes on daily basis to gain confidence of ur sis,,let her know she gave it only for her sake,,
    make her believe that mom want to live more for her sake,,
    ask ur mother to be calm & gain ur sis' confidence,,
    tell mom to visit & gv her blessings wn she's half awake & half asleep,,
    just gain her confidence at first &

    simultaneously you keep on looking for suitable proposals &
    when she is ready,let her decide wt she wants then...

    but also consider what flowerlady has said,,
    & decide then only..there wont be any benefit of forcing her..
    that will increse misunderstanding only...
     
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