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You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole family

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mohini16, Jan 10, 2013.

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  1. Jan 12, 2013 #61
    coolwinds

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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    well, she didn't say elder 'aunties'!:rotfl
     
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  3. Jan 12, 2013 #63
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    I don't talk to last bencher classmates who are always absent from class...... Bad peeplezzzzz :)

    We like to think= :notthatway:......We ARE = :yes:
     
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  4. Jan 12, 2013 #64
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    Mohini
    Lesson for today
    Never ask a Man his salary,a Student his mark and a woman her age-
    First two can be low and the third ?????????
     
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  5. Jan 12, 2013 #65
    mohini16

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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    Uffff ........OK I take my words back my dear Ilites.........I get mature suggestions from most of you GIRLS :):) and i really thot most of the women here are married and more experienced than me in life :)

    so Correction : Thank you all my girls .......you all are gemstones :):)
     
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    Hi Dhivya5

    Who is that another girl???????? again its going to be one of us [we women] right? Ayyo Paavam.

    Rgds
    Shanti

     
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami


    time for another thread. "when do/can/must/should/would u call a person mature and elderly?!" :)
     
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    :rotfl

    Adi paaavi..!
     
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    and here we go again... conversation deviates from original post to when to call someone elder :bonk :rotfl:rotfl:rotfl

    focus dear ilites :) :coffee
     
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    Re: You are not getting married to me only , you are getting married to my whole fami

    First of all, don't take these posts at face value. There are many immature folks out there who don't weigh in all possibilities. ;-)

    Try to understand his thought process. You can ask him what does he mean by that. In general, both men and women expect their spouses to mingle well with their family. He might have meant jelling with his family. You can explain it to him that a girl gets married to the guy only and not to the entire family.

    As you are talking with this for about 4 month now, you would have an idea about this guy. Weigh in all pros and cons, rather than one instance.

    Good luck.
     
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