Ouch!! That hurts.. That was the feeling I had when I read a post in fb by my friend’s wife.Its their anniversary and she thanked her hubby in fb with the above title saying if not for him,she will be a typical housewife cribbing at her misfortune. I am a typical housewife and I do crib.A lot! Coz am forced to try working outside coz of peer pressure and statements like the above. Do I enjoy being a homework.By god! Yes! Am I lazy?far from that..I enjoy doing the typical household chores like a 1950’s wife.Strangely it is appealing to me.I enjoy cooking three fresh meals,keeping home perfect in a zen mode,I enjoy my hobbies and love watching tv,IL and yes lazing in my free time.However..I crib a lot coz now am forced to work despite my hubby who says it’s my entire choice to be who I am. It’s good to work and Infact it’s great to work.I have a daughter whom I want to grow up to be a fiercely independent woman coz the world these days is in such a way that one needs education and a career for survival. Somehow I got a little lucky coz am financially stable no matter what happens, have a supportive husband and family and have zero inclination to work in the corporate world. I am probably from the 1 percent of the population who doesn’t want to work outside.I get lot of flake for that and by god..am still surviving,struggling and cribbing I don’t have a choice.Have no choice to be a housewife. Truth is..am glad to be at home.This is what I want to be.This is my choice.Maybe it’s a wasteful choice in others eyes but still a choice.A misunderstood choice. I am still desperately trying for a job and hope I get one sooner or later.Then probably I can be giving the statement above in my fb page. Hmm...wish people are more sensitive to others feelings.Wish statements like the above are not made. An woman working outside has to deal with a lot of things.One need to appreciate her.It is not easy.its awesome what and how they do it.Lot of respect from my side to them.However..I may not need respect but statements in a public platform like the above is not right.