Women need physical intimacy purely for love - is it true?

SreeSri · Nov 6, 2012

The subject line of this thread is a JOKE.
BTW, I just saw the poll results, surprisingly IL members are more practical than emotional/sympathetic.
OP: You have found a solution for the prostitution, woman can only do sex when they love more than one man in their profession..

BTW, if I turn the thing around, woman can have sex even if she doesnt have love/feel about her partner. But for a man, at least he has to have a FEEL(Love is bonus) to have sex(you must be aware of what I mean to say here)..
very universal fact right?

indianguy2010 · Nov 6, 2012

aminroop said: ↑

naah, wasnt a guess. was a blatant statement based on facts.
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Yes Poornima. That is right..........what you told was a blatant statement based on facts. True.

Do you remember something? Earlier "PM User Status" was something for which one has to pay. Even if we pay and get PM User status, if the other member has no "PM User status", PM could not be sent to her.

The Administrator made PM Use free for all, only to enable IG send PMs to dudettes...!! So sweet, right Poornima! !:rotfl

indianguy2010 · Nov 6, 2012

Vishnupradheep said: ↑

I really have no idea what u guys r talking about, Ithula Ull kuthu yethuvum illae
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Hi Vishnu,

She was trying to pull my legs.......playfully. Hence, don't worry.

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

Vishnupradheep said: ↑

mg: I am shocked(Nan appadeae shock aieten). Till now I saw threads women have sex purely for love and emotional reasons. But this thread is shocking, Surprising and Confusing :confused2: for me. Which is true I don't know :spin, But one thing I came to know is if men come to IL and read all the thread he will surely become :crazy :rotfl.
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I am shocked at your reply and totally confused :confused2:

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

Ragini25 said: ↑

I don't see a reason to compare notes on this. It may be different for each person.
To each their own. Do I eat food to survive or do I eat food just for the pleasure of its taste?
Do I socialize because it is required or do I socialize because doing it is pleasure in and of itself?
Answers vary. People vary.
Polls and comparison of notes on these things won't prove much.
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I started this to share my thoughts and hear what others felt about it.

You are right, people vary, answers vary, then why does people make statements that categorises people in a certain, if they say all girls like ice-cream and if I am one of those girls who doesn't then doesn't that make me feel that I am an oddity?

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

Vishnupradheep said: ↑

Yes answers vary and people vary, but nature does not vary. U have nose, eyes, hands right like others have and also u r breathing right, its nature. If u vary in that nature, U r not normal. Like wise sex, its a natural thing. If u vary then u r not normal.
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That is a wrong attitude again. Sex is not essential like breathing, no one has died due to lack of sex.

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

Rihana said: ↑

Such threads are mental masturbation. They are about as useful as threads about theoretical situations (to work/not to work/ working just to avoid in-laws /...)
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Useful or not theoretical situations makes us think and that is a good thing in my opinion.

To answer OP's question: Could be that things are changing, but age-old established impressions take time to change. So, it is still widely thought that women want sex only for emotional/love reasons. Also, there are other factors, like unwanted pregnancies. The pill was approved only half a century ago. Female virginity till wedding is still a desirable or required state in many cultures.
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Yes, it could be due to old impressions.

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

christine014 said: ↑

OP here is only referring to a woman wanting more sex in a marriage and the nature of the desire - whether it is physical or emotional.

She wants to make a point that sex for women can also just be purely out of sexual gratification and not emotional need.

So let us not wander about and get back to our favorite topics like infidelity and EMA and sexism.
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Thanks a lot for this, yes I was referring to sex within marriage not about EMA.

PeacockLady · Nov 6, 2012

nemesis said: ↑

And there are movies where muscular men come full nude too, lol.

Eurotrip not included, no, no.
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Yes there are many of those as well but I was talking about main stream Indian movies.