I have a friend who is always complaining about her husband, in laws, her own parents and siblings. She used to tell me and more friends how controlling penny pinching is her husband. When I watch her closely I am so surprised and irritated to see her lavish spending so much money on her luxuries, house decorations and never doing any house work or job or anything productive all her life. She hate cooking or any job so always eat out, do lot of shopping, always chatting with friends and neighbors and cousins. she always want comfort and never want to work hard. She tied rakhi to my husband saying she feels like he is her brother. Whenever her husband get stressed to see her lazy behavior and lavish spending, they get fights and she call my husband to Mediate. She says money is not important, she doesn’t want money so she doesn’t want to do job. I m doing job because I m money minded. Whenever I tried to explain her if she doesn’t want to earn she should not spend also lavishly, she throws philosophy on me, give me lecture like some spiritual guru that money is not important in life, peace and happiness is important blah blah I feel like avoiding her but she keep calling my husband again and again that he should help them as brother. I feel so irritated with all this nonsense. Please advise.