why husbands get possesive?

hai dear,

Do not worry. Your husband thinks that your entire love and affection will get attracted by your friends more and you will start thinking and talking about them on an regular basis. Even if you are talking about your friends you have a limited talk. your husband will not feel. It is all passing cloud. do not worry

 

Being possessive to an extent is part and parcel of love, and this implies to both wife and husband. To certain extent, we enjoy it too. But when possessiveness crosses limitations and starts irritating, it's a matter of concern and needs to be discussed..!

 

Hi dear,

Possessives to an extent to check whatsapp and FB seems way to much .Why does he want to monitor you all the time by asking you to be online ? Have you ever noticed anything peculiar with his behavior ?Please don't consider this a phase in the relationship because relationship requires trust and freedom to nourish. Please nip it in the bud and have a heart to heart communication with your H with respect to this.

With love,
Maddy

 

checking whatsapp and fb msgs without your consent??? way too much. This is not possessiveness, not even the same zip code. He is suspecting you may be....

 

Just my thoughts.

he is coming and showing his chats and Facebook messages. May be he expect same kind of openness from you. I am not sure how much you are transparent with your husband.

If they don't find the same wavelength from you, may be he just curious.

My husband is very open and I like to maintain some privacy. In those situation he get curious but not suspicious.

 

Hope he is is already connected to you on FB. Let him go thru what's up. After a while he will be bored and not do it. We have everything open. Our phones lie around the house with no lock. All our pwd are stored in a common excel file so we have access to each other's email etc in addition to all the pwds of different banks, brokerage, insurance, etc web sites. None of us have FB or What's up. Our friend circles have merged so both know everyone.

 

Your address and Full path to the excel pls..waitingsmiley

 

I can see few chances..

either he has is suspicious about some of your activities or chats and he want to make sure that nothing is happening that he is feared.

Or he himself started doing something that you shouldn't aware and also he confirms that same is not happening with him on your relation.

May be a genuine chance that he had a impression that he wont spending enough time with you and care you and feared that you fall into some other relations.