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Why do husbands cheat and why do wives forgive?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Nithya39, Sep 19, 2014.

  1. aabcii

    aabcii Gold IL'ite

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    I know many ppl who still living without marriage boundaries and still adjusting and managing
     
  2. Akanksha1982

    Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

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    Hypothetical discussions/arguments have no ending. It is like comparing a happy dream sequence to reality and the happy dream sequence will always feel great. So if you have some concrete examples of alternatives that you are preaching and hopefully practicing, it would be better to compare and contrast.

    Whether you believe in Theology or Evolution, the development of human beings is based on collective thinking and continuous innovation and inquisition of the origin of the universe (called God in Theology). Gratification of the senses can be achieved in other forms of life (animals, birds). But human's have been blessed with intelligence and the knowledge of community that helps them to build on each other and discover the mysteries of nature. Mobile, Space, computer technology, etc were all in the design of nature (God) and it just took centuries for humans to discover them building on successes achieved over generations. Similarly there are a number of other mysteries that will get unraveled over the course of future generations and centuries. And one of the collective norms demand a civilized society and marriage is the foundation stone of the society. Without marriage, a society is uncivilized and collective strength and progress is not achieved. Animals don't go around thinking how to save the earth or how to invent a mobile phone. The reason being no concept of collective strengths, thinking because of no civilized society.
     
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    nandita24 Gold IL'ite

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    Life has to be treated as one whole. Therefore i do not fully concur with you.
     
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    Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

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    What do you not concur about? You really got me interested in knowing about alternatives. Please share the alternatives that you have practiced. I like to compare and contrast with traditional marriage concepts.
     
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    nandita24 Gold IL'ite

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    That may not be possible in this conservative forum finding that most are not open to newer ideas. You have also passed your judgement (see above). And also you claim everything is hypothetical. So what's the point. Thanks however that you atleast consider there are/could be possible practical alternatives.
     
  6. aabcii

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    Its Oke Nandita.. You can share ur views .. nothing but good to have new change and if its acceptable sure ppl will be agreed to follow it ... ready to take new things and ideas in good way that will serve the humanity and reduce problems to live better
     
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    then, is this forum not a waste of your time.
     
  8. nandita24

    nandita24 Gold IL'ite

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    One benefits only where there is a flow of ideas and not closed / stagnant minds. You are a very intelligent person..... why waste your time with me?
     
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    Aloha Polyamorelia! Woo!
     
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    he is from india right .... when did bigamy become legal in this country??? tell her to go to the cops, she need not feel any day inferior ...
     

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