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  1. Jan 31, 2009 #21
    SoaringSpirit

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    My dear Sathya,

    I salute you! You did a noble cause in a situation where most wouldn't be capable to think of the ordinary even, forget about thinking beyond the ordinary. That you thought beyond the here and now and did what you did, is simply inspirational!

    About your loss, my sincere wishes and warmest hugs to help you come to terms with it. I know that a loss as grave as this can never be overcome, it can only be dealt with by accepting the harsh reality and hoping that as years go by the mind becomes strong enough to endure the pain.

    Lots of luv,
    SS
     
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  2. Jan 31, 2009 #22
    iyerviji

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    Dear Sathya

    My heartfelt condolence to you. It was touching to read your post.
    It is a noble thing to donate his eyes. May God give you courage to overcome the situation.

    love
    viji
     
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  3. Feb 3, 2009 #23
    sathya

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    to all my friends in IL dear...
    my sons and i thank you all for being with us in our hour of grief
    sathya

    dear jaya

    my eyes cloud
    as tears fall
    the thought that i did right
    rings again and again
    thank you for your kind words
    most dear

    dear shanthi
    that was one act
    that was pretty difficult to practice
    or preach..
    thanks for being with me in tears as well

    dear sangi
    bravo yes with tears
    rolling

    dear dear vidya
    how i wish what you have said
    came true
    if only for a moment
    your long reply a balm
    to my yelling brain...
    may it become numb
    if only for a while

    dear pushpa
    too great words
    ...nobility..
    thanks for being with me

    dear mindi
    you are right
    that i wanted to share it here
    much as we wish
    to be of help to the world
    it is easier to part
    with the organs to the fire
    than to the living

    dear saikripa
    thanks for your kind words of solace

    dear aishu
    words fail
    as eyes cloud
    to utter words...

    anbu kamala
    hugs welcome
    loving yes
    courageous no
    i was gooey gooey inside then
    and now...
    thank you dear for being with me
    in tears

    dear meena
    thank you for your kind words

    dear carpediem
    like i said before
    he is seeing two worlds now...!
    care yes...!!

    dear gowri
    inspiration to others...
    OMG words cannot explain
    how i felt and still feel..

    dear ammu
    thank you for your words..

    dear sundarusha
    the divine spark sure
    not mine but HIS
    my thoughts are still clouded

    dear chitra
    azhuvatharkum
    karanam vendumo...
    kanneer aruvigal...
    nirkumo

    dear srinik
    kaalai ninaippu
    maalai palithathe..

    dear mithila
    varigalil vaarthaigal
    vizhigalum padikkayil
    maraikkuthe kulamay

    dear kamalji
    nov 10th 2008 a day to remember
    yes the thought
    that he went blind to the fire
    still haunts me

    dear ss
    may the soaring spirit be mine too

    dear viji
    words of consolation
    sure is a balm
    to my warped mind..

    sathya
     
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  4. Feb 4, 2009 #24
    Kamla

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    My dear dear friend Sathya,

    Even in your sorrow, you remembered to write to all of us. I feel very helpless. I wish I could somehow make it good for you. All I can do is pray and ask Him to give you peace and heal your wound.

    Love and hugs,
    Kamla
     
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  5. Feb 4, 2009 #25
    sathya

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    dear dear kamala
    vattamadithu thirubi
    meendum meendum vanthe
    thuyar theerka iru karam
    thankyou

    sathya
     
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  6. Feb 4, 2009 #26
    Sriniketan

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    Sathya,
    As Kamla pointed out, I am moved by the way you had replied to all in your own imitable style...happy that you are coming out of that situation slowly...and steadily...
    He will definitely give you and your sons enought strength to overcome this loss and move ahead..

    sriniketan
     
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  7. Feb 4, 2009 #27
    latamurali

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    Dear Sathya mam

    My heartfelt condolence to you

    and, mam, no doubt, you have done such a noble job and my :bowdown:bowdown:bowdown to you and my dad died 1 1/2 years back and he suffered due to MND , most dreadful disease , and he lost his speech, mobility and everything except eyes , yes he used to do EYE POINTING for everything , avar kannala kadaisi minute muttum pesinaar and we too donated his eyes , he got most powerful, beautiful eyes .iam so happy that somebody is surviving with that , dont worry mam, your DH will praise you like anything for your noble cause and avar engayum pogalai, he is with you only , watching you and he will safeguard you from all tough times

    ( eppadi dhan naanga enga appavai niniachndrukom )
     
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  8. Feb 6, 2009 #28
    sathya

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    hello srinik
    thank you once again
    for your words of comfort

    sathya
     
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  9. Feb 6, 2009 #29
    sathya

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    hello latha

    you sure right about
    eyes being donated
    eye donation
    or recieving a donor eye
    is not new in our family
    my mom has received a
    donor eye
    (unfortunately it is not working
    as it was a little late in receiving i guess)
    and some relatives have given it before
    all the same when it comes
    to ones own dear ones...
    it is a happy and sad state at one time
    happy he is seeing two worlds
    and sad that i have to wrench it away
    nice to know that your father's eyes
    were donated too.
    now they are seeing two worlds i guess
    and beautiful ones at that
    thank you for your kind words of solace

    sathya
     
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  10. Feb 6, 2009 #30
    apar_ram

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    Dear dear Sathya
    My heartfelt condolences and big bear hugs to you. So sorry to hear about the loss of your other half. You did a commendable job in donating his eyes, definitely he will be happy you have done a yeomen service to two souls deprived of the pleasures of sight of this wonderful world. I admire your courage in taking such a big decision at such time of sorrow. My :bowdown:bowdown:bowdown to you.
    Lots of love and hugs during your time of sorrow
    Aparna
     
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