@1Sandhya , thanks for understanding my feelings. The problem you pointed out is actually the reason. But I have not received death threats but mental abuse a lot which has left a never healing wound. Your suggestions are most welcome. My being emotional is the main cause of quarrels. Hence I will not be giving another chance to MIL. Yesterday DH cried a lot being emotional but I just told him to forget and move on. Ours was a love marriage and MIL was not happy with my looks. She always had a disappointment about me not being beautiful and hence so many comparisons were made with other beautiful DIL. I just didn't mind as I know I am a creation of god and whoever questions my look is questioning God's creation. Anyways DH and I have decided to forget for child's sake. DH loves me and his family too. I never interfere in DH's family love but their intolerance towards me is something which is out of my mind. Whatever it is silence is the best medicine and staying happy irrespective of situations and avoiding unnecessary quarrels and arguments with DH is the best step to be taken as of now. Am I right here. Yes I have strong parental control. As far as I am thinking if I will always be emotional and hurt with these type of people then it may affect my health and in turn my child have to suffer. Hence decided that I have to stay strong and ignore any unwanted comments from these cheap mentality people.