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Discussion in 'Interesting Shares' started by Sony23, Nov 11, 2019.

  1. Sony23

    Sony23 Junior IL'ite

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    Hello everyone, I have had a very problematic marriage where in laws never liked me,husband was verbally,physically and emotionally abusive, he still has anger issues but he is way better now, I dont know in life I always felt betrayed by friends and family, people would be nice to me initially but then they would change..I dont know why, honestly I been nice and true to people..some days I feel very down and lonely..i have lovely kids who love me..but I cannot let go of the pain from past..I never got respect or love in this marriage..I was in touch with my ex who was a very good guy but due to caste we could not get married..honestly we just kept in touch nothing more than that..I felt good when he would message me and ask how I was, but it's been 6 months he haven't messaged me..I am thinking what went wrong ..am I overthinking..plz dont bash me for this..we had no affair or anything we just had a special place for each other..but suddenly he stopped talking...what to do..plz help
     
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    Your post is in the section called "Interesting Shares".
    You have what you deem an interesting situation and you wish to share it with us ? Or.... should you have posted this elsewhere.

    In either case, if your friend-confidante has not messaged you in 6 months, there could be reasons that only he'd know. Or...life has made him just too darn busy. All you can do is pray that he is well, and wait.

     
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    Sorry I am new and didn't know where to post
     
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    Never Mind. It does not matter.
    Your loss of a messaging friend, who has not sent you a message in 6 months, is a situation that is not amenable to any practical suggestions from others.

    As a caution, you must know that it is not safe to offer detailed description of your life, people in your life, and other miseries to another person on messaging applications. These are records that tend to stay on the internet, and hard to erase. Just be careful out there.
     
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    Oh dear I have dated him when I was in india for long time so it's not like I was talking to random guy
     
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    Sony23 Junior IL'ite

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    Thx
     
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    Of course. Naturally. You betcha. and so forth.

    Sometimes one could almost wish there is a missing persons report we could file, when our email/message/phonecall goes unanswered for six months, or some long stretch of time. And some cyber authority goes out in search through the internet superhighway.
     
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    I really dont wish to continue it's like I made you upset or something, isn't it a platform to share whatever we feel..I understand I posted in wrong section...I even tried to delete it..but when I said thx means I dont want to continue..so thank you
     

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