Hi Ladies, After spending a lot of time to understand the simple relationship, which is very complicated in our case, I thought of taking opinions. Its about my brother and mostly about my bhabhi. Theirs is love marriage, bhabhi is not of our cast. But still both side of the parents agreed and arranged the marriage. My brother is elder to me and has been always protective. In childhood we had very good bonding, though we were not that close like other siblings that you share all your secrets with each other. After their marriage they moved to another city as both of them were working. So my bhabhi never got a chance to spend much time with my parents and us. But we use to talk over phone and she seemed to be nice. Later on we got to know with few incidents that she's very straightforward and would say anything to people if she's not in a good mood. We ignored all those things. But my brother told that she's kind of person who would not forget anything until she resolves earlier issues. So I tried to speak to her many times. The problem is , I am also married now, and my brother doesn't speak to my husband at all (with me also rarely). Not even on phone. He says you first resolve your issues with her, then only our relations can become better. I have tried my level best and still trying to make the relationship better but I don't understand her. Once we spoke for a very long time and she said everything is fine, then suddenly she changed her mood. And this has happened many times. I always, always try to talk to her, she always tries to ignore. I understood that she doesn't want to have anything with me. But when I think of my brother I feel so bad. Why can't we have a normal relationship like other siblings.