Lets not get into details of if its wife or husband, just a general question. If your spouse is not respected by your family in 6 months trip to your house, how would you react ? To elaborate my question: · If your family pretends your spouse is not at all part of a family and treats your spouse don’t exist in the house for food or for any conversations. · your spouse is just a machine – don’t enquire about your spouse are sick or go deaf when your spouse say he/she is sick. · Who continuously shower love on you and kids with lot of love and your spouse become corner piece. · Constantly move away from your spouse in the shopping only prefer to shop with you. · Constantly for day and days wont talk to your spouse, will repond with short answers like’ s, k’ for any question your spouse is asking your family. · your spouse really really trying to be nice and best to your family inspite of all the above happenings except venting with you. I will start with my response here itself. If my family is treating my husband like described above, I am not the same person with my family anymore. To be honest I won’t hesitate to stop talking to them. If it’s my mom and dad, I might not stop talking to them but I might not speak to them with heart. I want to hear from you . Why I want to hear from you is – Am I wrong to involve how they treat him with my parents love towards me? There are lot of men in this group, I am very desperate to hear your response. Please help me to bring best out of me. Feeling so lost. Your response might give me a million dollar worth of relief or collapse me worse than this or might calm me down. For some reason, I am feeling like I am not able to write what exactly I am feeling. Might be once I calm down, I will add more in terms of comments.