What Is Aperger's Syndrome

Roar · Dec 17, 2019

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I still have this issue but it seems to be working for some kids. I've been counseled about it being a part of accepting the child for who (s)he is. Many kids with HFA(which is Aspergers) are suicidal because of the high amount of anxiety that comes with being HFA. I've unfortunately known two moms around here who lost their HFA kids to suicide. I've been told to use the positive super power angle to help with the anxiety that social inadequacy and communication issues bring. There are books written on those lines. I'm still on the fence. I still feel learning social cues and not using the super power as a crutch is important. When I see my son's overpowering anxiety though, I want to do anything to take it away. We never get told what to do by therapists, teachers, doctors. Each child is unique and each child on the spectrum is unique as well. Nobody knows what works. If it worked for Greta and if she is able to as much as she is with her HFA then I'm happy for her. More power to her.
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That needs a lot of things put together from the mum... to find that way and then make it work for the kid...
Sorry, how can kids be suicidal?.. ... or is it when they become adults?

Roar · Dec 17, 2019

[QUOTE="SinghManisha, post: 4168926, member: 479617]

It takes a lot of courage to parent a child with autism. Moreover, these kids also have their own strengths in navigating the confusing world of normal judgemental people. Even the tiniest of achievements deserves applause.[/QUOTE]

I see that... its beyond

Roar · Dec 17, 2019

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Laks09 · Dec 17, 2019

Roar said: ↑

Sorry, how can kids be suicidal?..
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I don’t know but now I know they can. They can have other co morbid conditions - anxiety being the most common. Bipolar, mood disorders, depression all co exist with HFA at times. It’s hard for the kids or parents to know and do the right things at the right time.
I’m glad your friend’s son has savant skills and is also not having other issues that come with the territory. I hope and pray that he continues to grow and thrive.