what do you think is right age for havng a baby

best wishes supriya,
i got marries at 25+.
my son was born in 26+.
the initial one or two years u tend to get mood swings due to improper sleep and work.
led to a few misunderstandings too.
husbands feel a little jealous (they dont even know it is jealousy) when ur little one comes.
but i explained to my husband about the change in moods and he read a lot of articles on that.
it was then that he understood my erratic behaviour.
after that my dear, life was heaven.
he helps me a lot. trust me dear, men are at times so obtuse they just cant understand womens' behaviour till it is explained.
ok to the actual topic now.
i feel it is planning a child is best between 25 to 28.
i have recovered well and i keep fit too.
take care

 

Hi.......


Thanks a lot for the advice and reassurance.....

I think I'll wait a year before trying to get pregnant so hopefully when in 27+ or 28 I'll have my first one....(I know we cant plan it exactly

Why I am so concerned about it is because my husband in only one year elder to me.......so I want him also to be ready.......

And because women age faster...... I feel childbirth even speeds that process......Thats y I posted this question......

Many ppl nowadays marry same age guy/girl when it is love marriage....and they wait till 32/33 to have first child.....but I dont want to wait that lang cos it is not predictable...... if there is any problem things will get worse....

Thanks a lot and welcome to post more on this question.....