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what do we mean by enjoying life as couple?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by priyanka12345, Jun 30, 2014.

  1. priyanka12345

    priyanka12345 Silver IL'ite

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    Hi,

    I many times come across sentence like " enjoying a happy married life "
    Enjoying life etc.

    What do we exactly mean by that? what are the things couples do when they say they are enjoying life
     
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  2. preetha1969

    preetha1969 New IL'ite

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    enjoying life together means both have to share each other feelings daily so that both of them will not have misunderstanding. if both r working , they have to share atleast what has happened in the office daily may be if there is any problem any one can find a solution. Atleast when at home have food together.
     
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  3. HeartHealer

    HeartHealer Guest

    Hi priyanka12345



    Enjoying life involves enjoying the good and bad times both, TOGETHER.

    Life throw at us different situations, sometimes it is good, sometimes it is bad. It has its own unique way of putting people at test. There will be situations when you are in acute need of money but you're going through financial stress, times when health of a family member is compromised, etc. While there will be times when a new born comes in your life, when there is a lot of love, sweet moments, etc.
    A couple who is together in its good times as well as survives together when life turns out really hard, is a real couple. Your partner becomes your strength when you have this belief that he/she will always be there beside you no matter how tuff life gets. And a couple who stays together is a couple hard to break.

    Support, a mutual understanding, a sense of responsibility towards each other, a level of commitment makes a couple strong. A couple who has with time developed an understanding for each other, who enjoys their common likeness and at the same time respect their differences is one which runs long together for entire lifetime.

    Life is not an enjoyable jourbey for couples who are like two wheels of an expresses train, running on the same track, separated from each other but still bonded together with children acting like sleeper benches of train, not allowing them to completely separate from each other.
    Marriage becomes an obligation if both or any individual involved stops thinking and acting like a responsible partner. If one starts dominating the other or if one finds hard to adjust and starts complaining, marriage comes to point where there is nothing left.... no understanding, no support, no love, no respect, etc. And, when respect is gone from a relationship, it's better to end it.



     
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  4. Metamorphic

    Metamorphic Platinum IL'ite

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    Just two things .....

    1. Love and
    2. be loved in return
     
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  5. guesshoo

    guesshoo IL Hall of Fame

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    It is highly personal. There is no one answer that fits all. The bottom line is that both the parties feel cherished, accepted and loved by one another, share a rapport whether they are doing everything together or not.

    Some people wish to spend all available time with each other and enjoy it. (It would drive me potty. ) Some people have varied interests; need the space; each pursue their own goal, but share highlights and a good time when they get together. It is highly subjective. It is what makes you happy...

    and there is is always the meaningful intimacy...
     
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