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What are RIGHTS of Housewives in DH's Home

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Reesha, Jul 7, 2014.

  1. Jul 7, 2014 #1
    Reesha

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    hi IL's,

    I want to know from all of you that, what are rights we having as a Home maker in our home? like decisions we can make our self with out permission of DH. If need, we can fight with Dh also on those points.
     
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  2. Jul 7, 2014 #2
    Radhai

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    Rights of housewife = rights of wife
     
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    somehurt

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    Please see a philosophical answer from a lady to me while I was talking about terms and agreements in marriage. May be this will enlighten you and clear all the doubts about your rights.

    "Gedalu leni ooru, baadalu leni manushulu undaru Reesha"

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    guesshoo

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    It is the right every human has in their own home. You are an adult with brains. So, you use them as you see fit to make decisions. You don't need "permission" for anything. Not does the husband. If you are upsetting each other, it is important to sit and discuss calmly about what bothers you. It is pointless to fight as it is extremely immature and ineffective.
     
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    JustLikeYou

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    Whether a sole homemaker or working and homemaking, both husband and wife should discuss the matter on hand. neither of them can take a decision without consulting each other.

    But yeah, when it comes to certain things like decorating or buying vehicle, one person may have slightly more passion.

    When it comes to arranging things in kitchen, although, very petty, the person who cooks the most has more power.

    Just because the woman is not working, it doesn't mean that she is just a maid. She has all rights in the house.
     
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    anmolhai

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    First of all its not "Husband's house" its Your ( dh & you) house. You have the same rights your dh have. You both don't need permission from each other but good communication is important.

    In our house we consult/take opinion ad inform each other of decisions we are taking or about to take. For all major decisions we discuss before deciding. Working or sahm doesn't change this equation.
     
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    pantu

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    Hi, I would like to say the rights we should have in our home
    first and foremost LOVE. That is our right and responsibility too. Then comes respect and other things. If you enjoy the LOVE right every thing will fall in its proper place.
     
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    RADIODOC679

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    Hi!
    Talking about rights.In Marriage both have equal rights in everything& anything ,except maybe in kitchen where the wife is usually seen to have upper hand.And this is irrespective of whether one is working,educated,etc...Even Indian laws have said this time & tide again!
     
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