I am 28 year old married woman ,married for 4 years .I do not socialize much ,I had some friends in college but not in touch with them anymore.I have a good career and I am friendly ,down to earth and nice to everyone around. I feel that I do not get along with anyone in my family ,workplace and neighborhood no matter what I do.I always get a feeling that people are trying to show off how they are familiar with other people or have some group and I am not part of it.They will just include me and treat me like one who does not belong. Even in family they try to show how closer they are to each other and I am just an outsider where in reality they may be having issues with each other. For example ,lets say if 2 people do not get along with each other ,I enter into the scene and they get closer and together become against me.This happens at workplace too. I also notice that if I give some importance to some person and try to say that I like that person or that person is good ,everyone starts chasing that person and ignoring me completely.If I appreciate someone's dress in a group, that person completely ignores me next time.If people are coming in a group from somewhere and I see them no one bothers to exchange a smile and ignore me completely even If I am smiling at each of them. Even at workplace people try to show off how intelligent they are by doing many tricks and when it comes to showing my work/talent to senior management they just want me to step back and not open up.Its like they are trying to suppress me from getting ahead. My credit getting stolen is an everyday story for me. Its like I do not deserve anything after all the hard work.I have lost so much confidence because of this. Even in family relationships everyone is just trying to show off how better/prosperous their life is and keep boasting even when I have no interest in their life.People coming to my house as guest compare everything in my house with with siblings . People individually come to me for my advice/help in all aspects of their life ,discuss their issues and get help.If they feel low they come to me for an inspiration. These are the same people who gossip about me later and become against me with other people when their work is done. If people are in pain they will come to me and want me to help no matter what I am going through. When everything gets cleared they do not even bother to thank or contact me. When I am in pain no one is really interested.If someone hurts me and I try to discuss that thing with some person in common that person immediately take other person's side without even checking who is right. I am an average looking woman but look lesser than my age and I get to hear a lot that I look younger and do not look like married (just mentioning this if at all it adds to anything).I am very emotional ,but If I do not like something I confront immediately and get away from the relationship . But this is happening with each of my relationships and I cannot keep on breaking every relationship. I had a very difficult childhood and I had to do lot of hard work day and night to reach where I am today.I never had any financial /emotional support (except school fee ) from my father and mother (she is my step mother).Off course not everyone is aware of this except my old friends. No one in my family/friends had really imagined that I will go so ahead in life and achieve what I have today. Even my maternal uncle's daughters were good to me when I had nothing and they had everything. They could not succeed that much even with all the facilities .They do not talk to me anymore or only talk when they want something from me. Same is the case with my old friends. I never boast about any of my achievements.I never tell anyone in case I am appreciated at work because I know no one would be happy. I am a software engineer and earn decent pay according to Indian market standards. Also I have noticed that people are really interested in my career ,my salary and what I am doing. They will ping me on FB /WA just to check what I am working on ,where I am working ,how much salary etc etc. They will not disclose anything about themselves .When they achieve something or if i need them, they will simple ignore me. Sorry for long post .I feel really low because of all this and it looks like downfall has started in my life already in terms of health,career and overall quality of my life . Please help me understand what am I doing wrong here .Thank you for reading.