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Wedding Night jitters !!!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mlk2009, Sep 2, 2009.

  1. mlk2009

    mlk2009 Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi Ladies,
    On a romantic note, lets talk about the wedding night ...

    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?

    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?

    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?

    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?

    5.Where did the wedding night take place ?
     
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  2. mlk2009

    mlk2009 Bronze IL'ite

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    I will go first ...

    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?
    DH broke the ice first with the cliche " you look so pretty " lol

    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?
    No talking, DH got into immediate action as we had finished all the talking in the 8 months courtship period.

    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?
    Nope

    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?
    Since we were in a honeymoon suite for 4 days, I got a lot so sms from friends and cousins teasing me

    5.Where did the wedding night take place ?
    In a resort in ECR.
     
  3. scorpiogal

    scorpiogal Senior IL'ite

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    Nice Thread MLk2009 /Kindled the romantic memory lane


    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?
    DH

    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?
    though we had 1 year courtship it took 2 months after the wedding to get into action


    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?

    both of us .we didnot even talk much went to sleep within 10 minutes .:rotflas it was hot summer and the room we didnot have A/C

    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?
    Nothing much

    5.Where did the wedding night take place ?
    in a bedroom inside the marriage hall .Not so romantic we did not have honey moon beacuse right next day of our wedding was aadi masam so had to sleep seperate for 1 month:bonk
     
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  4. limkabook

    limkabook Bronze IL'ite

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    Scorpio girl,

    ".Not so romantic we did not have honey moon beacuse right next day of our wedding was aadi masam so had to sleep seperate for 1 month"

    Why is that ? :shock:

    Mlk2009,
    Wedding night took place @ DH's bedroom
     
  5. priti8683

    priti8683 Senior IL'ite

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    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?

    My DH............


    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?

    pre actions started in the wedding night.......Actual action happened after 1.5year...I know it was too long...:bonk

    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?

    Nope....

    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?

    Not really...SO we were lucky.....:)


    5. where did the wedding night take place ?

    Taj Krishna(Hyd)..........very very nicely decorated including bathtub with great flowers..........
     
  6. scorpiogal

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    Hi Limka

    It was a custom that AAdhi masam is not good for Husband and wife to be together because if they have *** and get pregnant then We will have a baby in apiril which a peak summer time in India .thats why and teh other erason why we were seperate was we both had to go to work within 3 days of our wedding and I stayed in PG accomadation and I was not allowed to move in with my DH since the Aadi masam people don't start living in house or move in to new house etc .
     
  7. chocolate

    chocolate Platinum IL'ite

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    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?
    It was my husband. I was too nervous to even look at him forget talking.


    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?
    We were talking for hrs and then went to sleep.

    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?
    I was running a fever becoz of all the marriage rituals and eating paan a lot. I dont like paan and usually get cough after that.So all that added I was tired and not well. My husband understood and we both went to sleep.


    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?
    I didnt have any of that as we were in a hotel for 2 days after the wedding.I am thankful my husband:bowdown:bowdown thought of that as it gave both of us the much needed rest and no intrusions. My husband saw me and we got engaged , married in a span of 1 week. So all the running around topped with applying for my visa was enuf to make us tired. The 2 days of no contact with anybody gave us the well needed rest.:bowdown:bowdown.


    5.Where did the wedding night take place ?
    Here when we were alone . We had decided to relax and have it at leisure without any intrusions here. After I joined my husband here we took our time and we both relish it as we didnt have to give each other awkward glances with everybody around.:):).
     
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  8. bharti

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    1.Who broke the ice first when DH and You were left alone during wedding night ?
    DH... he helped me removed the 100 pins stuck in my head due to the hair dress up:drowning

    2.How long did u guys talked and got to know each other or talked about the wedding etc before you got into action ?
    we knew each other for close to 5 years... so no getting to know each other.... we talked about marriage for sometime.....about who came, who dint, the preparations, etc

    i feel relaxed after hearing preeti and scorpiogal...... its been 2 months of my marriage and we are yet to get into action:hide:

    3.How many of you were actually tired and went to sleep ?
    tired.... to the core..... each part of my body was aching like hell...... the heavy lehanga...... 100 pins in the head ( i actually sat and count it and my DH was laughing at me:bonk) and the heavy duppatta stuck in the head..... ufff..... finally i melted in his bear hug.... talked for a while and fell asleep!!!

    4.How was the next day when you had to face family and friends who were ready to tease ?
    a little..... none of his relatives were present as they were all localites and had left at night itself!!! only his family..... my co-sis did tease me a little!!!

    5.Where did the wedding night take place ?
    in the place my in-laws had taken for their stay for hte wedding........ the official wedding night happened the next day..... at hotel fortune landmark, indore (where our wedding had taken place)
     
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  9. priti8683

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    Yes Bharti, We suffered a lot....now we are very very happy...:)

    I think it is a very common problem for couples...

    Anywaz:).....:cheers
     
  10. Priya_Mommy

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    Interesting thread to reacall nostalgic experiences.
    Offlate, let me give my inputs.
    1. Its my DH who took initiation!!:), as we knew to eachother since childhood and doesn't took much time for us.
    2.We talked for almost half of the night and slept
    3.Not exactly tiered
    4. Happened in a honeymoon suit at Kerala, during our honeymoon period.
    5. As we were in honeymoon for 5 days, so didn't really face much trouble after back home.
     

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