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    vital Do's & Don'ts
    Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

    Return money that you have borrowed even before the person who lent you remember to ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

    Never order the expensive dish on the menu when "someone" is giving you a treat.

    4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ ‘Don’t you have kids’ ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ why don't you buy a car?

    Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.

    If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.

    Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.

    Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all.

    If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're.

    Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

    Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

    There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.

    When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.

    If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness.

    Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.

    If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.

    Never give advice until you’re asked.

    When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.

    Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it.

    Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech and

    Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

    After reading a good message please post "Thanks for the message".

    APPRECIATION REMAINS THE EASIEST WAY OF GETTING WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE..
     
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    Nice one...
    Hope everything is going good at your side...
     
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    :hello:Thanks for that “ nice one”. Trust your family & sons all in good cheer and in robust health. I was thinking of Delhi mercury touching a new high some time today and possibility of aandhi - gusty wind from Rajasthan. (I experienced once at Gwalior 1983-84)

    Regarding going good I must say...
    New prestige pressure cooker performs well.
    Gasket not leaking; nozzl-whistles promptly. Food gets prepared on time.
    Electricity - no power shedding- supply seamless 220v 24 x 7.
    Corporation supply of water excess chlorine.

    Respite from Agni natchathiram heat - unusual showers here in chennai city - day and day day before.

    Vegetables price soar yet spouse mange to get good fruits and veg. Continuously standing near cooking platform & shuttling between gas oven & sink makes spouse foot swell.

    Jack-fruit once a week from daughter.

    Tv soaps and “the hindu-sudoku” accommodated in daily routine.
    Washing machine and other gadgets in kitchen going fine! ( nazar na Lagay)

    Khabi khabhi merry Dhill May... since seven days trying to by heart the lyrics but succeeded partly. I had good collection of images and few I had posted in media recently and right now two are on face page I.e. homepage here. I guess you view those in media forum.

    With best wishes to your darling (not nutcut) sons and other family members.
    God Bless.
     
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    Normal routine life... Dream for some... Very normal for us..:) Thanks for your best wishes... :wave1:not yet seen those images.. Will try to find out and let you know... :hello:
     
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