When I was having a c section I was ready to get a tubal but my husband wouldn’t let me have it. So I pushed my husband to get vasectomy as doctor said it was dangerous for me to get another surgery. Like u said my husband became very old after getting it done. White hair all over. but more importantly now I hear him tell people” we (men) got surgery. If we don’t have a wife we can just pay money to get another wife. “ Scares me. Does that mean he is sleeping with other women ? The guy is never home working working working to pay off his parents loans in India. Should have fought to get a tubal ligation during my surgery but my lousy husband starts joking with the nurse saying don’t u want 3 kids honey and the nurse said unless we have both parents approval they can’t do tubal.