Varalotti, The Eternal Trouble-maker Talks About....

Good morning sir,

A good start for my week. A good insight about balancing act.

But today I have a question. Yeasterday I was talking to my mother about a relative and his family. There is a person of age 85 years. He is in bed from last 20 years. He is suffering badly. He has a family who is with him from last 20 years fulfilling his wish and supporting him. But after being in bed for 20 years obviously he is very frustrated and irritated. So he is now being pain to everyone.

Family members are wishing to god, that he should end his suffering. Before his family memebers start hating him.

So what do you have to say about this. My mother and I was discussing,why this particular person has to suffer so much. Why cant he have a very silent and painless death?? We at the end...thought may be it is his karma, of this life and past life,that is causing him this pain.

What will be your take on this. This is again balancing act only but in negative way.. Does it work like that??

 

Will come tomorrow...that is on our Monday, to leave a fb, Sridhar!

sriniketan

 

This article has moved me to tears, uncle! Beside the balance of love, I feel that karma also has a role to play.

Raji

 

I just loved your story, Sridhar Sir.

When exasperated, the thought easily comes to mind is 'How long more to go?' Then I am remembered that nothing is in my hand. When He thinks I am no more needed here, my account of karma, love or whatever you say is perfectly balanced, I'll get the heavenly call.

Thank you, Sir for a nice start of the week. Kind regards

 

Dear Boost,

A nice narration and the reasoning is totally unacceptable to me. I just don't buy this Sri... Sorry for being so blatant but I want to tell the truth.

Though I believe everything happens for the good this account balancing and the person had to suffer to get the same balanced is totally not acceptable. If I give reasons for not accepting, you will be telling me that somethings cannot be explained.

I have seen people who have only suffered in life and even in death the family suffers. Take the case of my dad, from his young age he has seen only pain. I have never seen my dad buying anything for himself..a nice shirt nor a pant. It was only family for him and my mom used to get these things for him. The way we were brought up ...my eyes well up Sri when I think of my dad. Finally he didnt have a pie for his monthly expenses too and on top of that his heart was giving lot of problems and poor dad he didn't have the finance to get good medical care...to have an angiogram he had to think so much...Finally he had to sell his house to earn livelihood and then also he left the money in mom's name and he left this world...Is this fair Sri? Should anyone suffer so much in life for no fault of theirs?All along he saw only pain, pain and nothing but pain and he left all of us with physical pain too. Incidentally tomorrow is his ceremony too.... I am not telling that God is unfair nor he is not there but I am not able to buy these crap.

If my dad's account needs to be balanced...should he have not seen some joy in life too....This is simply NOT FAIR, NOT Fair, NOT FAIR..........

 

Hello Sridhar Sir

Out of words to write anything on this topic. Your post gives one dimension to the scenario and Lalitha Akka's comments a totally different dimension.

regards
Shobha