Hi , in response to my last post ( husband spying on whatsapp ) , have understood that he is spying me and my family behaviour . he comes from financially not so good background , and had affairs before marriage ( his family behind money , greedy , social status to say that they are rich ) and uses opponents people’s weaknesses to manipulate and get things done . One such thing is marriage ( lied about education ) , my husband never liked me ( married because his family said so we are rich , educated and earning well , my fmaily had a good reputation in society ) , shocked after marriage of all the behaviour that he and his family portrayed to us before and after marriage . Fast forward , he always used to travel on work , he used to inform me 2 or 3 days before , so had never planned for anything . Of 9 years of our wedding once a year we used to go out , twice a year dining out . He had never attended any events in my daughters school , always used to say ‘ you say you are educated , you are good at it ‘ you do , don’t depend on me I will be travelling I had never relied on him emotionally or physically , I was so busy at work , home and kid . He never helped me financially as well ( even to pay my daughter any fees ) Whenever I ask him , he manipulated and ensure the daily is on me , in fact I was so feeling bad about myself . When I was with him where I had no support , doing everything alone . I was doing everything from searching for Renting house to all . He was in town for a week or 2 , and he was busy at work . He also never spent money on groceries as well . He used to buy gifts for my duaghter whenveee he was from trips . I have never come across human like his , if I buy dress , he wants to buy . If I join . If I want to buy any gold ornaments , he wants to buy as well . If I buy any night creams he wants to buy as well , any gym member ship or dieticians , even if he is doing to other one or type , he will join like the one I joined and hire a dietician . Now that my work brought me to different country. I am living with my daughter here . We have not seen each other for almost 2 years due to Covid . He says you live there and I live here , visit and go back . I feel lonely all my life . Even if he talks he wants to know what I am up to like.l and my moves. The moment I got to know he spying my whatsapp, he wanted to know what my siblings and their spouse up to as well . I am shocked always , From what planet he has landed ?