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  1. Jul 20, 2014 #1
    RADIODOC679

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    Dear sisters & friends!
    i thought i must update here as i constantly keep psoting problems.Have taken up 2 part time jobs,thinking 3rd also since that keeps my mind numbed& busy.Hubby has'nt yet got job-DOing some courses-dont know what.You must ask why not 1 fulltime insted of parttime-Since i am getting part time nearby-dont want to commute far off(where fulltime is available& also shifting etc..)FIL came & went & threw another bomb-Hubby's second cousin getting married in xcfgbf city& MIL who has shunned her son(my dh) is going for wedding & has ordered us via FIL to come to wedding as she wants to see us.Have no interest nor inclination to waste time on second,third cousin's wedding who dont keep in touch anyway & waste my precious time & also tired of telling the same lie DH is in SJHUH company we r happy smile please!!!Stopped the basic prayers to God from this month also-Why give myself false hope-planning to buy a car on loan as driving a 2 wheeler has shot my bp so much!!!That's it folks.Thanks for all of your precious time& glad ilite sisters exist!
     
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  2. Jul 20, 2014 #2
    yellowmango

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    Tell husband you are too busy....he can go if he wants.He will find some excuse.
     
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  3. Jul 20, 2014 #3
    Weasly

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    Kudos to u dear!! We r all here fr u n we commend ur courage !
     
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  4. Jul 21, 2014 #4
    Anamika99

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    Great job done
     
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    rkgurbani

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    Great going...Stick to yourself and do not go if you do not want to.
     
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  6. Jul 23, 2014 #6
    TheUnhappyWife

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    I always wait for posts like these where ladies provide an update. It must be so tough for you. Keep it up!
     
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  7. Jul 27, 2014 #7
    RADIODOC679

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    Actually he also does'nt want to go.If in these 2 years anything good has happened-touchwood-it is that my hubby has finally started seeing me& respecting me immensely.he alwyas says that he is troubled seeing me work so hard(this sentence never came out of his mouth before)And that he cares for me more than any relative /parents-now that is a shocker!!!So i guess 8 shani is not so bad-he has seen the true colours of his MOM& DAD now-Thank God for that-
     
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