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Unconditional Love Of Parents

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by maddysweet, Apr 4, 2018.

  1. maddysweet

    maddysweet Silver IL'ite

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    Amidst of some threads where we all complaint about parents and siblings. Today had the most positive experience with my mom and got to feel that unconditional love of her. Due to so many of our personal tensions and my mom's health issue, lot of arguments etc were going on. I do hug her many times, but she was in her own tensions and wouldnt respond, But today my mom gesture made me so emotional and wanted to share with you all.

    I called her as usual while going to work. it got disconnected, sent her facetime. she saw my face got up from sofa with a bright smile and shine in her eyes says " you look so great in this pink top, this color really suits you and remember you used to have a chudidaar few yrs ago same color and you also had a saree same color 8 years ago ". she goes on and on, says take care of your skin and shud look this beautiful as you used to.
    I was speechless, dont know what to say.
    she amazed me coz, she herself has turned so fragile, wrinkle skin, cant get ready much coz my father is not there, but me looking beautiful makes her so happy. The slight change in my skin and looking beautiful that day was only acknowledged by my mom. ( I was infact wearing a nice top and hubby never compliments)

    so at the end of day, parents are the only ones who genuinely appreciate you and praise you even for such small things.

    I donno if i have written my feelings well, but hope you have understood what i was trying to say.
    I cried unconsolable, and praying god to bless good health to my mom. really need all your wishes for my moms good health.

    Post any of your parents loving gestures....
     
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  2. GeetaKashyap

    GeetaKashyap IL Hall of Fame

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    To parents, children are their world and the love you see in their eyes is invaluable. Amidst your hectic routine, isn't it wonderful that you paused to spend a few loving moments with her and she too was in a mood to respond? Thanks for sharing your beautiful moment with us.
     
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    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    True ! No love is greater than parents love ! Especially if you are really far away from them you will miss even more ! Wishing your mom abundance of health !
     
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    Sandycandy IL Hall of Fame

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    Thank you for sharing this emotional heartwarming experience with your mom! I Wish the mother and daughter lots of happiness and good health !
     
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    lavii Gold IL'ite

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    Adorable :) Its a simple yet in this hectic routine life we tend to miss these moments on daily basis .

    Wishing your mom a speedy recovery and you many more such cherishable moments.
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    Even I had tears thinking about my mom while reading your post. Thanks for sharing!!!

    Only after becoming a mother, I do notice the love and affection and even the tension my mom has for me.
    Being a parent, that too, being a mom is not an easy job.
    We outgrow ourselves from being children to being married woman and mothers eventually. But a mother never stops being a mother even though her children become old and parents in their life.
    Even today, my mom roamed after me at home to ensure I had eaten my breakfast completely. She brought the plate after me as I was rushing to pack the bag, and doing make up before my office car comes to pick me up.
    I am an adult woman, and I do have a canteen at office and I can afford a great breakfast there. But my mom knows me very well, that I will skip my breakfast if anything pops up in the morning at work. So, she wanted to ensure I had eaten something before I leave for work.

    This is exactly what I do to my DD when she fusses around during the busy mornings. I had to prepare myself for the office, and prepare my DD for her play School while doing other chores as necessary at home. Amidst this, I would roam here and there after my little DD to make sure she eats. In fact, I spoon feed her each time as I know she would not eat if I let her eat by herself.

    I thought I wouldn't be the same once my DD is grown big. But looks like, the mother in me (just like the mother in my mom) will never rest even after the children are grown. We will stress ourselves, and roam after our children just to ensure they are happy and safe. That's motherhood.
     
  7. ashima10

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    True True True !
     
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    Barbie2013 Silver IL'ite

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    My mom hardly calls me or talk to me..I keep trying to reach her everyday over phone.It does not matter to her to miss my call :( . I dont know y
     
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    anupamag Gold IL'ite

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    Dear OP, I can totally understand and relate to your feeling, even my mom is like this, recognizes the slight change in skin, hair or clothes and always thinks about me even if we are continents apart. God bless all mothers with love, peace, health and happiness.
     
  10. maddysweet

    maddysweet Silver IL'ite

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    Yes GeetaKashyap, those few moments made my day, infact week. I hope to have these moments for long time in my life, Thank you so much
     
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