Two Things You Would Love Your Spouse To Possess?

My wife's two items most likely be:

1) Take care of my health always
2) Be available when she needs to talk

My two items always are:

1) Spend sometime to talk to me away from chanting
2) Let us have a drive or exclusive time to talk to each other without any disturbance

 

My H's two items for me would be:
- Stop daily/weekly lectures or preaching on general matters, instead give clear tasks with clear instrictions.
- Do not discuss everything with him, especially when it comes to gossips and life matters of my siblings, cousins and some far relatives whom he doesn't even remember. The sad part is, whenever I recall these matters, my H innocently asks who is X and Y.

My two (out of millions) items for him would be:
- Be available to talk/discuss family matters, as I feel I am bearing it all alone for long.
- Be a responsible father, than a supporting father.

 

My two items would be
1)Never change yourself for anyone
2)Stay happy always

 

my Wishlist to my dh would be

dress up well. he looks like a man , who just landed from a boat in us

dh says
walk more and stay out of phone or reduce.
luckily never had issue with talk. since touch wood, dh says all day he listens to work talk which gets monotonous. he though listens but pretends if he does not remember but at the same time mocks on what i shared in funny way after days on the details.

 

My wishlist for my husband would be:
1. accompany me to friends / relatives invites, be it weddings or other ceremonies even if he is not interested.
which is way too often.
For myself I am sure he would have a whole lot of dont's which he cannot outright say.
dont add on any items for the house , be it kitchenware or others .
Need not attend all functions/occasions, just because i have an invite!

 

I have heard many description of how the husband dresses from many spouses but nothing was more hilarious than what @lavani said above. Having said that, men's wardrobe is always not as elaborate as women's wardrobe with categories of outfit for each occasion. There are only two categories for men formal or informal. Informal includes casual.

 

I made my peace with it. so he lets me pick . it has some benefits or he is too sneaky , i noticed. sometimes, some relatives or friends judge him thinking he is struggling financially and keep talking about their stuff . dh smiles when they overshare how they feel insecure too .