Two Things You Would Love Your Spouse To Possess?

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  1. anika987

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    Just a random thread :D maybe fun or funny or thought provoking..

    My husband would give me a list about me lol..

    1) He would want me to talk less
    2) Focus on the current moment


    Mine would be..

    1) I wish he was so interested in cooking:D ( I admit I get envious when I see men cooking )
    2) An interest in a healthy lifestyle

    How about yours?
     
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    You and your fun / thought provoking threads :grinning: makes me happily delay dinner to answer the question. :grinning:

    His two item wish list for me to posses would be:
    - Not make him press pause on remote to convey something kid has texted to me. I come down, stand next to the sofa expectantly, he has to press pause, unrecline the sofa, switch on light, and ask me "What?" LOL.
    - Not tell him all the stuff going on in my friends lives.

    My wish list would be:
    - If he buys a new kitchen item, he first makes space for it.
    It is becoming like city bus, if I leave a cabinet spot free as I am using that pan, he promptly puts a new item there that arrives in a big amazon box. I actually put a note that says "This space left blank on purpose"
    - He gives away a few old t-shirts which are from stores that are now long gone. : )
     
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    My wife's two items most likely be:

    1) Take care of my health always
    2) Be available when she needs to talk

    My two items always are:

    1) Spend sometime to talk to me away from chanting
    2) Let us have a drive or exclusive time to talk to each other without any disturbance
     
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    My H's two items for me would be:
    - Stop daily/weekly lectures or preaching on general matters, instead give clear tasks with clear instrictions.
    - Do not discuss everything with him, especially when it comes to gossips and life matters of my siblings, cousins and some far relatives whom he doesn't even remember. The sad part is, whenever I recall these matters, my H innocently asks who is X and Y.

    My two (out of millions) items for him would be:
    - Be available to talk/discuss family matters, as I feel I am bearing it all alone for long.
    - Be a responsible father, than a supporting father.
     
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    My two items would be
    1)Never change yourself for anyone
    2)Stay happy always
     
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    my Wishlist to my dh would be

    dress up well. he looks like a man , who just landed from a boat in us

    dh says
    walk more and stay out of phone or reduce.
    luckily never had issue with talk. since touch wood, dh says all day he listens to work talk which gets monotonous. he though listens but pretends if he does not remember but at the same time mocks on what i shared in funny way after days on the details.
     
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    My wishlist for my husband would be:
    1. accompany me to friends / relatives invites, be it weddings or other ceremonies even if he is not interested.
    which is way too often.
    For myself I am sure he would have a whole lot of dont's which he cannot outright say.
    dont add on any items for the house , be it kitchenware or others .
    Need not attend all functions/occasions, just because i have an invite!
     
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    He looks like a man who just landed from a boat in us..the way u put it..so hilarious!
    :roflmao:
     
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    I have heard many description of how the husband dresses from many spouses but nothing was more hilarious than what @lavani said above. Having said that, men's wardrobe is always not as elaborate as women's wardrobe with categories of outfit for each occasion. There are only two categories for men formal or informal. Informal includes casual.
     
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    :roflmao:

    I made my peace with it. so he lets me pick . it has some benefits or he is too sneaky , i noticed. sometimes, some relatives or friends judge him thinking he is struggling financially and keep talking about their stuff . dh smiles when they overshare how they feel insecure too .
     
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