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Tricky Situation - Help Needed

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by lustremoon, Oct 29, 2019.

  1. lustremoon

    lustremoon New IL'ite

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    Hi all.

    need some perspective. My best friend in laws are not interested in staying with her
     
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  2. Anusha2917

    Anusha2917 IL Hall of Fame

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  3. Amulet

    Amulet IL Hall of Fame

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    This is like Antakshari, except in a serial story format. You get to name the characters, and push the story forward a little bit.

    :tonguewink: The OP's best friend's in-laws are staying with the OP instead of her best friend. The in-laws had quarreled with the best friend, and decided to take refuge in the OP's house. They are ordering OP about her own house -- for food, and amenities. Now the OP has got a tricky situation--she cannot toss out the squatters, without losing a friend.

    The help that is needed is the knowhow on how to butt in, find out what the breakup was about, mediate, and peacefully get them all back together. Or.... get them out somehow, but still be on the good side of the bff.

    Any takers?
     
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  4. Afresh

    Afresh Gold IL'ite

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    I am sure the good friend then can easily call up the DIL and connive with her for devilish ideas on driving them insane!
    Such a win win for the DIL to unleash all the suffering that she secretly harbours on in laws, and also then doing image management to make sure she's still given the good sanskaari bahu tag!
    ( am sure you would be super skilled on drawing out a detailed sketch of all the pranks the BFF gets to play on them... say lets start with
    (i) Make their least favourite food / dal with the worst recipe possible
    (ii). Check on their health conditions and ensure the adverse environment
    (iii) DIL , if aware, can list out the grudges held against her by the in laws and the BFF can display advanced versions of those pet peeves behaviour.............. :smilingimp::smilingimp:).

    Someone to join next on in laws expected or out of the blue reactions to this strategy
     
  5. Viswamitra

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    One fine day, OP returned from work tired and was getting ready to make dinner for her husband, children and the in-laws of the best friend. When she entered she noticed that the in-laws of the best friend was talking to someone over phone smiling all the way.

    When OP hurriedly asked them what was going on, they replied, "We told your in-laws what a nice person you are hosting us with a smile". Now OP is worried how and when the bickering from her in-laws will begin having seen the OP being nice to her friend's in-laws.
     
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  6. Afresh

    Afresh Gold IL'ite

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    And @Viswamitra Sir,
    Now the in laws have joined the BFF's even further and thicker in their ties .
    They both now need to hunt baying for blood of the new common enemy ;)
     
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    In walks the OPs husband, and seeing that the BFF-in-Laws are all pal-y pal-y with his own parents now, decides that they are like his own parents and declares that they can stay here as long as they want. The BFF being the evil DIL has been forbidden from entering the OPs house anymore.
     
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    Reading all the comments. :roflmao:
    @lustremoon . Your post is too vague.
    What's your question??
     
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    BFF's husband walks into OP's house and meets his parents requesting them to come home. Seeing their son, the in-laws of the BFF oblige. The battle between BFF and in-laws of BFF is restored in BFF's house. OP's husband welcomes his parents to come home as well and the two friends discuss how to handle their respective in-laws.
     
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    Meanwhile , BFF in laws and OP’s in laws have turned into BFF’s themselves. They often exchange notes on how to tame the other’s bahu.

    They also have a secret WhatsApp group : Teri bahu sirf teri hai.
     
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