If you could time travel & re-start your life all over again, which part of your life you would want to change? I know, unfortunately this is not an option in real life. But if at all, I get a chance I would pause in 2009, and re-start everything afresh. My life was simple, smooth and everything was on my control before 2009. It was just one foolish decision I made in 2009 turned my life upside down. The decision was to resign my work, move back to home to live with my H & in laws, instead of continue to push him to join me in abroad. Had I stayed in the job in abroad, I would have climbed my career ladder much easily and gained a top position well in advance. I am sure, my H would have joined me too, perhaps a year later. Because leaving me and a well secured life in abroad wouldn't be his choice either. This would have given him an option to stay away from his evil parents before they interfered & damaged our marriage life. Nevertheless, a decade later, we are at a place where we wanted to be. But the struggle could have been avoided had I made a wise decision then. The time lost is never regained. We have not just lost the precious time, but our youth, money, career, health and major relationships in the process of recovering. At last, we are happy that we have recovered and leading a much stable life today. If given a chance, at which point in life would you press the pause button to revise & re-start life again?