I just came to know that one girl 17yrs old a high schooler a white girl, in our neighborhood is pregnant. She is not yet married. Has a boyfriend though. When I heard I was actually disturbed. Not that I don't know these things happen in America but I know this girl and her family so well. Thoughts of her future simply scared me to the core. I thought that's how her mother must also be feeling but nope, to my surprise her mom is is very happily announcing on Facebook "my baby is going to have a baby ". I found it quite disgusting. Typical Desi way last evening when a group of ladies met I said why don't they get them married? One woman agreed but couple of ladies started saying marriage is just a piece of paperwork which they don't need if there is real love, and that they don't believe in this institution of marriage. I can never understand how they can accept baby before marriage so easily. Or is it that they have given up on their kids? And, some remain unmarried throughout life , may be with one partner or multiple and keep having babies. If they don't believe in the institution of marriage then so be it but then why have babies? Is it only me or you too feel the same?