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The sex - who is initiating it more?

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Rihana, Jun 23, 2015.

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  1. Jul 22, 2015 #21
    sangiak

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    hi
    If mutual understanding, respect, and care are present in both hubby and wife, then initiation will happen from on both sides and it can happen also spontaneously. There is no need for apt place, time of day or favorable atmosphere.
     
    sangiak, Jul 22, 2015
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  2. Jul 24, 2015 #22
    Rihana

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    Hmmm... are those three required ingredients for xxx?
    And does their presence lead to spontaneous combustion?
     
    Rihana, Jul 24, 2015
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  3. Jul 24, 2015 #23
    katochsimi

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    as per my observation it is females.
    i see around females (girls, ladies) more open in discussion and experiments.
    down the years (10 years back) we never thought discussing with freinds also so openly. but when i see girls in my office discussing, even with males, so openly i sometimes get shock/surprise and force me to think..is this development or deterioration of ones character. now again this is big debating stuff..so this can be left with ones choice :thumbsup
     
    katochsimi, Jul 24, 2015
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  4. Sep 13, 2015 #24
    anuyogam1988

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    In our case, both. We are super sexual couples. But we hardly involved in sex during our first year marital life. We talked and loved a lot, and then naturally involved in different kind of sexual plays. I don't know whether it is true Rihana..read some article in business insider which said couples who involve in intercourse after understanding each other have a great sexual life. Don't know whether it suits for everyone. But in our case, it's true :)

     
    anuyogam1988, Sep 13, 2015
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    Akanksha1982

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    :rotflmademydaysmiley
     
    Akanksha1982, Sep 13, 2015
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    sdiva20

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    Sure about that ???:biggrin2:

    I think I am disqualified from opining............since it is about "Indian couples" thinkingsmiley

     
    sdiva20, Sep 13, 2015
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    desichica

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    Sorry off the track.. but good to know bout jasmine's use. Never knew that.
     
    desichica, Sep 18, 2015
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    desichica

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    Based on my observation of my girlfriends and world around me :wink: :) I think its usually man in the beginning of the joint lives. (not even going to use the word marriage). These days couples meet in college, and they even live together (outside of parents' knowledge obviously). They do get married though. Anyway, back to the point. Once both feel comfortable with each other in bed, its usually the one who's in the mood.
     
    desichica, Sep 18, 2015
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  9. Sep 18, 2015 #29
    yellowmango

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    Works for some.:)

    May not work for others if it reminds them of mother or grand mother...thinkingsmiley(if they wear jasmine in their hair,just wondering)
     
    yellowmango, Sep 18, 2015
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  10. Sep 18, 2015 #30
    desichica

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    I will order the smallest quantity first (just in case ) :rotfl
     
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