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The First expression of Love to me ...

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Meenamohan, May 5, 2010.

  1. Meenamohan

    Meenamohan Silver IL'ite

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    DO you remember the Dec 11th 2001 Attack on Parliment? Dont wonder why I ask you this silly question.

    Myself and my brother went for a vacation soon after my engagement to Delhi where my sister and cousin sister were living then. Myself my sister & my brother went for a Delhi tour organised. It was the day of attck on parliment, we were there ... to be specific we were about to visit the Parliment but didnt get down just five minutes after that the attack happened. It was God's grace that day all 3 of us escaped.

    We didnt know what happened that day and we enjoyed the tour thoroughly. Had great fun and we came home having a kulfi in our hand. The moment we entered the colony our entire family was standing outside. My cousin sister, Her DH, her MIL, My brother in law(Athimber) & the land lord family too.

    My cousin's eyes were swollen so we could guess that something went wrong somewhere. So we behaved properly no giggles no laughs. After that it was chain of phone calls we need to attend. My Athimber informed my Dh too by SMS and I didnt bother much to talk to him.
    (P.S: Mine is an arranged marriage so I didnt know much about my DH and didnt fall in love at that time)

    My cousin said " யமனையே துண்ட காணும் துணிய காணும்ன்னு வெரட்டியடிசுட்டேளே :rotfl " [ You have scared the God of Death ].
    Her Mil ... " ஓகே நான் கொஞ்சம் ஜாக்கரதையா இருக்கனும்ன்னு சொல்லு ..." [ok! its the warning call for me] :crazy

    Our family takes things little lighter. And that day we all had a great dinner in Dhaba close to our house with my cousin family and it was all fun again. Shared with her what happened in our day tour.


    My Dh called me around 11 PM that night. I am cool and told him what fun we had that day didnt know that he was :evil: .... then the climax came I told him " உனக்கு தாலி பாகியம் ரொம்ப கெட்டி ... :biglaugh:rotfl " [ Your fate is stronger that you cant escape]

    Finished thats the limit to his patience .... " What a fool you are? I was terrified and you say something very silly. You can take things easily but I cant esply if its for you I DO CARE .... Don't you know that there is person waiting for you? How can you forget me so easily? Thats it enough of your vacation come back tomorrow. I am sending you the tickets. My office person will come and deliver it you are starting tomorrow .... "

    My DH didnt say I love you but these words spoke it very clearly. It was then I felt engaged to him.
     
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  2. kainaath

    kainaath Senior IL'ite

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    hey meena,
    first and most importantly, thank GOD you and your family is safe...

    men have very different ways of expressing their love for their "girl" (saying girl coz that is what my df calls me).
    for certain issues or problems, their will be blunt right to the point where their can hurt ones feeling, but if the same has to be done my someone else, GOD alone help.
    possessive at the same time loving, playful at the same time sensitive...." MAN I TELL YOU, CANT LIVE WITH THEM, CANT LIVE WITHOUT THEM"
     
    Last edited: May 5, 2010
  3. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    Nice to see you back safe,Meena!

    All the firsts you cannot forget and this first of yours..is truly lovely!

    sriniketan
     
  4. Sudha Kailas

    Sudha Kailas IL Hall of Fame

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    Meena, I can imagine the anxiety in your family waiting for all of u to arrive safely and the next thing is Mohan's undemonstrative love in his words......

    God bless you both !!
     
  5. radsahana

    radsahana Silver IL'ite

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    dear meena,

    good post. enjoyed reading it. your dhs action expressed more love than saying it in words. it showed how much he cares for you.

    keep writing.
     
    Last edited: May 6, 2010
  6. mstrue

    mstrue New IL'ite

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    Meena, Lovely! As Radhika said, his words are more romantic than the routine "I Love You". :thumbsup Enjoyed reading it and read the last paragraph twice, rasichchu.
     
  7. Meenamohan

    Meenamohan Silver IL'ite

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    You are right Kainaath ... Thanks for giving a very nice start to the FBs ...
    there is a writing and it perfectly fit the bill " For a moment you hurt my feelings but later you are sitting deeper in my heart ..." (Dunno where I read these lines ...)

     
  8. Meenamohan

    Meenamohan Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks for stepping in Sriniketan Mam ....

    The first are always remembered very well in our life and this one was like the window to his mind and I cant forget it. Still I tell him " Your fate is Stronger" and make fun of it.
     
  9. Meenamohan

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    Thanks Sudha ... Actually we didnt realise the impact of the attack and were continuing to be humorous ... thats y told him " உனக்கு தாலி பாகியம் ரொம்ப கெட்டி ... " what to do vidi valiyathu
     
  10. Meenamohan

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    The anger spoke off love more than the romance here ....

    Thanks Radhika for the encouraging FB ....
     

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