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The Dolls of Love

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Vysan, Oct 21, 2007.

  1. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Sunkan,

    Human life is a bundle of happiness and sorrow... We keep forgetting the happy moments quickly... but the sorrow lingers in our mind for a long long time.... This is human nature... We forget the good things and keep remembering the bad...

    But after reading the story, the only thing which made me feel sad is that the lady has not realised the the other person is also loves her and she comes to know about it only after his death and indirectly she is the cause for his death... The lady has to live her life with that feeling all through her life....

    We expect things to be in our way... We are not willing to look at small small things, which gives us answers... This is mainly because we have a preset notions/expectations...
     
  2. Tamildownunder

    Tamildownunder Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Veda,

    It is a beautiful story just like in Mills and Boons. The unspoken love is great.

    Regards,

    TDU
     
  3. latamurali

    latamurali Gold IL'ite

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    Dear IL

    If u love somebody, express it first, dont keep with u, this is my humble request

    SOLLADHA KADHAL ELLAM SORGATIL SERADHU.....

    Veda Sir, i will tell my hubby 'I LUV U" each and every minute, but he never reciprocate......:bang:bang:-:)-( and send him lot of e-cards for all occasions, but he will never open and readi ti, instead he will say if he open that, some virus may be there which will corrupts all his important files:bang:bang

    Can u give him some training?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!

    latamurali
     
  4. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Dear TDU,

    Thanks for peeping in... Yes. I agree with you....
     
  5. Arunarc

    Arunarc Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    But Mr. Veda don't you think sometimes these are the one's who love the most........... they only problem is they cannot express I agree to you as you keep telling the bondage increases. Yeh there are some people who get married just becoz they have to I pity such people. I too have a friend with both these combinations:-D husband loves his wife very much but he never expresses himself to his wife and the wife got married just for the sake of getting married just to make her parents happy. I tried to help this couple as it is a very delicate relation it never helped much.
    God takes care of everyone.

     
  6. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Dear LM,

    I dont know that "Solladh kadhal ellam sorgathil seradhu"...

    It is not easy for everybody to openly accept that they love somebody... Some people think it as a weakness... and some people think, that the wife will take advantage... It all depends on each ones perception... I know a couple, the husband seldom talks... The wife talks and does lot of help for so many people... They are happy....

    If you love your hubby, you keep telling him... Dont expect him to tell you back... He may have his own reservations... I always believe, when you give ur 100% unconditional love, you will get the receiprocation...
     
  7. krish22

    krish22 Senior IL'ite

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    Hello Sir,


    It is a toching story.

    That is true.If one loves someone one should express it.It might not be saying directly the three words ,maybe with some other gestures.


    Krish.
     
  8. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Aruna,

    Yes.... and a No. In this case, it is not of love and all... It is just, I got married... It looks as though as a ritual... for him...

    In Husband and Wife relationship, we can only try to help them... It is they who has to take extra efforts and think in terms of making the marriage/love work...

    Yes, God takes care of everyone...
     
  9. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Krish,

    Thanks for peeping in.. Yes, I agree...
     
  10. balamotwani

    balamotwani Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi Vysan,

    I was thinking why no reply for my post from you, now only i am seeing that my big reply is missing in this thread. OMG again. Nowadays i am going mad bcos whenever i write something big and finally either i cannot send it or i will send it and i will not find it. Am i going crazy? Or th forum is doing some maintenance work and my replies are gone.????

    Dear Vysan,
    You made me cry with your touching, tragic story this morning and i wrote a big reply crying , crying,:cry: .... I started crying when the doll was saying i luv u. OMG i felt she will cry the whole life longing for him. She should have atleast pressed and saw in the initial stage or he should have atleast told press my doll even if he is very shy, i have learnt my lesson, tell whatever u want to tell as soon as it comes to your mind, otherwise you will not be there when you really want to explain it later.

    Anyway vysan, why did u make me cry??? I am very emotional and i cry watching movies though i feel i am a strong person. I was remembering Punagai mannan.

    Nice write up , very touchy. Next time i want everyone to write alternate endings.

    Bala
     

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