Hi, On and off I start feeling pressure that I do not spend enough time on teaching my kid. I do not sit with her and ask her to paint or draw. Then I meet kids her age ( indian) and I feel they draw/ write and basic maths ( yes true) and also they like to sit and study everyday. My toddler is so active that she won't sit for 5 minutes and by that time I lose my patience. Morever, I have to do household work so I feel like time wasted. I know, its completely wrong to compare kids and I do not want my kid to be genius in class or become maths wiz at the age of 5. But sometimes her school gives home work. And because she is not trained to sit/listen at home, she won't sit and learn for that homework also. Also once in her school evaluation, I was told, she does not know paper cutting, numbers only this much ..etc. How would I know that its me who has to put effort to teach her? Thats why we send her to school at age of 3 so she learn there. Ofcourse she learns. At home, I can not make her do anything, clean up or help in home. May be 1-2 shapes she will draw. What to do? How to engage her.