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Supreme Court Says - Hindu Son Can Divorce Wife If She Tries To Separate Him From Aged Parents

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by SeekingMind, Oct 8, 2016.

  1. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    A lot of in laws do different versions of it.
    E.g. talk about how bad some dil and son treat their in laws.
    Or talk about how someones's son left his wife because shewas not respectful to his parents.
    Watch ' Baghban' and recommend ......

    The best way to deal with this is to completely ignore. Act like you did not notice/ realise what was the issue.That discourages such behaviour .
    If they ask directly...give a diplomatic answer .
     
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  2. AAPriya

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    Thank you Minion.
     
  3. AAPriya

    AAPriya Bronze IL'ite

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    Thank you Rihanna and yellowmango. I guess I don't yet understand how the in-laws relationship works. I should not have reacted. My thought process was if I don't do anything about this, these people will repeat this behaviour and it will become unbearable at some point. Thought I was solving something at its initial stages.
     
  4. sokanasanah

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    Moved to Rel. Chatter.
     
  5. Minion

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  6. Benitapaul

    Benitapaul Silver IL'ite

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    Yes, IL's relationship is tricky. Never confront to them unless it's directed to you. Even if it's told to your husband, make sure he replies to them and you don't react or respond in these situations.
     
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    Genesis 2:24: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."

    This is something given about married life in bible but no Christians follow. Most of them who calls themselves very religious and read whole bible may not even aware of this verse.

    In this verse nowhere it's said only a boy child should take care of his parents. It only says a boy should leave his parents to be untied with his wife. The same applies to wife viceversa.

    And in another verse it's also given a man should take care of his old age parents. That also applies to a woman viceversa.

    Even bible clearly says that parents should not involve in their married kids life.

    So If the husband has rights to divorce his wife when she is not taking care of his parents. The law should be applied for wives as well when the husband does not let her to take care of her parents. I dunno how this worst culture we have got in india where only a son can take care of parents.
     
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  8. RamyaShreeVnky

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    is this equality? then why shuld hindu daughter leave her parents and live with hus?
     
  9. Meenakshii

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    I didn't hear of this law until now when I just click into this thread....I feel like society is regressing instead of progressing...
     
  10. Minion

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    bharat mata ki jai - when you vote stupid politicians to power this is what happens, they will do cow politics and take the country to Stoneage
     

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