Hi puzzled123, first of all you say that you are an IT person. If you were an IT person then you would know there is a spam folder and all spam emails go into that. I dont know why do you read emails sent by unwanted names. Are they related to your job. If not then juz open it and mark it as spam. Do not go into the full reading of it. Once you have ignored that Z person then do not think about him at all. Because what he is trying to do is Putting a fire in a good relationship which you are not actually trying to see it or do not wanna see. Also I don't think that your BF has complete trust in you. If he had then he wouldn't have stopped talking with you if you spoke to this Z friend of yours. But this should have been cleared before making marriage. There is a proverb (Ab Chidiya chukh gayi kheth to pachtana kya) something like that. So its better just ignore that Z guy and flush yr brains with all his memories please. Think he is no one otherwise that would soon bring complications in your daily love life.