exactly my thoughts laks09. my fil, bil,mil or my husband never bother with these. these are the days when sil and mil share wonderful bonds, and i believe bringing in something that was suitable for those age old be in the kitchen, cook and serve attitude/or mode does not work anymore. respect is not about just age. respect is something you earn and can not be expected just because you are older..(but then we are again conditioned to respect the elder). REcently my dd had a tiff with her gf and she was really p*** off with him. she sent me these image on whatsapp stating i wish to send this to him, and i just kept quiet because it is the gd and gf tiff, they will get over it. this discussion reminded me the same.