hi, just curious... something cannot be say to someone! for example, we cannot say or discuss something to husband, particularly about our FIL/MIL family. We cannot ask y his mom is always asking some jewels for her and for her daughters(eventhough married long back). To Dad/Mom, we cannot say that husband or MIL is treating us as a slave. They will feel very bad, they cannot do anything in this regard. To brothers/sisters, cannot talkabt husbands nonsense behaviours. They won't give enough respect to him later. like that..... I feel my husband is a good friend, but actually not. I think all or us expecting that our husband should be a good friend to us, expecting to share each and everything... which is not possible. friends, just thought these things, share your views if u have any!