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Some funny/strange things we did when in love before marriage

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sowmyasridhar, Aug 28, 2009.

  1. sowmyasridhar

    sowmyasridhar Senior IL'ite

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    Was just thinking back about the days before marriage.

    We both used to have long walks talking. To say for example, I have walked thrice from Tidel to Velachery - around 5 kms talking. If I think now, it seems bit funny..I will say a definite NO if I am asked to walk now.

    Just share some of yours....
     
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  2. Drpreethis

    Drpreethis Gold IL'ite

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    Cute thread, Soumya .. :) Anyday I love to talk about my courtship with this man !

    There are many silly things I have done when I was seeing my hubby..

    The first one that comes to my mind is this -

    He used to call me everyday at 5.30 pm when his parents go for a walk while we were at Proffesional studies.. He cannot miss even a single second and insists on talking for the whole one hour before his parents return !! That is the scene in hsi house.

    Over to mine.. I had to be near this landline of mine, like a rat near food ! Because this guy I am in love with, can never UTTER MY NAME ! :bonk
    He feels toooo shy to ask for me, to whoever picks the call.. He whispers it and my mommy used to question Who is this ?? Obviously my other classmates ask for me so well but for him !! :)

    So, to avoid all this mishaps and embarrassments.. I used to make sure I am near the phone at sharp 5.30 !!

    I become the best cleaner in the world during that 10 mins before 5.30 ! :) .. i dust the same place and keep the already neatly arranged newspapers " neat " !! :crazy if my dad or mom are talking on phone or simply sitting next to it ! I used to wish my dad picking the call, than mom since he is less inquistive about whom I talk to ! :)

    I also choose to read the newspaper during that 10 min period if no one is around the phone !

    I one day even started vaccuming the place, so that my mom doesnt get to hear the phone ring and I could pick it up myself when it rings.. :)

    If you are wondering, why all this tamasha.. I could call instead.. Again, it is simply because somedays, his parents choose to watch some Kannada serial or a drama on TV rather than go for walk ! Then, my man comes out for a healthy walk and calls me from the phone booth !! ;)
     
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    rosacea New IL'ite

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    Hi.......

    Im married for 3yrs.Our's was love/arranged marriaged.When we were seeing each other,My DH used to be in a diff state then for his graduation,and i used to be with my parents,so when ever i am FREE,no parents in the house:),i used to go out call him cum back and act as if nothing happened....if i call him from home telephone,bill wld show that number as it was a STD and no mobile then:).....
    One day when my parents left for morn walk, at 6am,i skipped out of the house went and called him,after comming back i realized tht i forgot the keys(automatic door lock),For few min i was freezed,then i thought to try it frm the balcony,(flats and ground floor)...I jumped in to the balconybalcony door was locked,:hide:...i was lucky enough that window near balcony door was open and the keys on the tea table,took a long stick,managed to get the keys out and entered the house thru main entrance and acted as if nothing happnd,but shud tell u,i was soooo tensed at tht time and it was sooo hilarious:rotfliwas 19yrs old then...when evr i remember tht i laugh out loud......
     
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    asuitablegirl Gold IL'ite

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    OMG I loved reading these stories, sooooo funny!

    Only thing I can think of is... when me and dh were first getting to know each other in the very beginning...

    He would get off work very late. But everytime when he'd reach home he'd text message me. I used to be in bed sleeping at that time and would hide under the covers so the light would not shine all over the place... just in case my mom were to walk by my door.

    Eventually he would get tired of text messaging... so he'd ask to talk on the phone. BUT I was scared of being heard, so I told him 'ok' he can call me... but he will have to do all the talking! :bonk So he would talk and I would stay totally quiet. Believe me, it was REALLY strange hearing this poor guy have a conversation all by himself!

    To this day if ever I mention these incidents he gives me a strange look and laughs. Oh, the things we do for love. :rotfl
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I met my husband through Bharatmatrimony.com. He was in Canada and I was in Bangalore. We used to speak for long hours...sometimes even 4 hours at a stretch!!

    So, when he came to India obviously we were seeing each other in person for the first time. He was very loving and I immediately fell head over heels in love with him. Formal "bride viewing" was arranged by my parents in Chennai in a Hotel. I was all dressed up and was very nervous. But the moment I had seen him I felt a calm wash through. On the other hand my husband was so nervous that he hardly ever looked at me!! When I offered coffee to his parents, sis and finally to him...he spilled his coffee:rotfl:rotfl
    Till date I tease him that his reaction should have been mine!!!

    But the moment elders were out of reach he cannot keep his hands to himself :biglaugh
     
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    aswini Senior IL'ite

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    Nice thread.. Loved reading these stories and here is mine.

    I am married for 2.5 years now. We met online and he was in US doing his Masters. We used to chat for hours and hours. Me being in India will be chatting with him for the whole night, everyday. I go to sleep at around 3.30 AM and wake up around 6.30 AM , sleep during my commute and guess what.. when I reach my office or even while commuting I would receive ISD call. Again talk to him for couple of more hours!! Inspite of all the chatting , talking , we will send mails to each other also. :))
     
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    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    Schooo schweeet and very cuteeee:biggrin2:
     
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    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    ASG Dear

    cute n funny too ....:biglaugh
     
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    Nice thread. Makes one smile thinking about those days. I met my DH on shaadi.com and have been married for over 3 yrs. We didn’t live too far from each other only an hr drive, but he was really busy with his business at the time being. So we didn’t meet each other for about 2 months but we talked on phone every night. Our conversations would go into hours at a time. Mind you he would call me when he went to bed which was about 11 PM. There were times when I was soooo tired that I went to sleep talking to him. Then next day he would tell me the conversation he had with himself before he realized I was sleeping. :)
     
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    Nice thread reminding me of those wonderful days... :)

    I got married early this year... and at that time i was in india and hubby was in US... ours is an arranged marriage so initially v used to chat hours together over the net... The day i gave my mobile num to my DH , he called me up immediately (it was morning for me in India and mid night for my hubby in US) i was all excited and picked up the call and He said HI .. by then my MIL who was with him here in US suddenly got up hearing him talk in the midnight .... On seeing her get up my DH didn knw wat to do... he suddenly said bye and cut the call.. :biglaughso on the whole he only called up to say just Hi and then BYE... even today i pull his leg for this.. :biglaugh
     
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