So Much Contrast Between Us But We Are One

I had written a thread long time back "May be we are different from each other but we complete each other" which everyone liked, manynominated and I won the award too.

I always wonder how God united us in wedlock. He is economic , does not like to dress, always ready to help even if he isin deep sleep , does not believe in luxury, can adjust himself anywhere but only thing is he is very short tempered. Now its become a little less. If you see him you wont believe that he is short tempered because he looks very calm and quiet. He likes to talk a lot . When he goes out and meets anyone on the way will start talking and wont see the time. If anyone is wrong he will immediately shout at them does not see who he is. He is not a foodie but will appreciate whatever I cook. He has got good memory power and can recognise anyone and also remembers whatever happend many years back. Likes to entertain people and keep them engaged.

I on the contrary I like to spend, enjoy life, like luxurious life. I also had memory power earlier but now a days dont remember fast. Like today we had to go the Doctor. Though we were going to the Doctor I dressed up nicely with a matching jewellery which I made yesterday. He was wearing dhothi as usual but it was not so nice. I told him wear another Dhothi but he said its raining and it will get wet , so I will wear this only and change after I come back. I was not bothered about my saree getting wet though its a new saree. If I was alone I would have taken an auto because it was raining but he started walkng, at that time no auto also . So we went walking and came back walking in the rains. While going we met my maid who was asking jolly ya enge porenga. Was saying matching saree and matching jewellery. Forgot to tell her I was going to the Doctor for mama's monthly check up for his eyes. In the clinic also the Receptionist always appreciates my jewellery and saree but today she was not there.

Our thoughts might be different but we are living happily and especially now in our retired life we have understood each other and as far as possible I dont give him chance to shout at me.

7 Important things to have and give in your marriage:

1 LOVE : The special feeling that makes you feel all warm and wonderful.

2 RESPECT : Treating your spouse as you would like to be treated.

3 APPRECIATION : To be grateful for all the good things your spouse does for you.

4 HAPPINESS : The full enjoyment of each moment spent together with a smiling face.

5 FORGIVENESS: The ability to let things be without anger.

6 SHARING : The joy of giving without thoughts of receiving.

7 HONESTY : The quality of always telling the truth

The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you,but to have another with whom you might share your completeness

 

Thank you very much dear for the first feedback which made me happy and more happy to see your nomination. I am short of words to show my happiness. Glad you liked my post and feel same like your parents with some things different.

 

Glad toknow you liked the post Vaidehi dear . Those 7 qualities I got it from Google my best friend