Dear friends, I thought I healed from my narcissistic sibling alas I'm yet with another post. As you all suggested from previous my threads, I kept my distance and became emotionally detached. Will call sibling or attend only when I can...also learnt not to take to heart anything she says. Still she keeps poking saying hurtful things. No genuine concern or affection with words, calls only to get updates on my life. I would give only brief description nothing more. She complains to mom, my mom on the other hand only believes only her not me. My mom too started hiding things from me, big small from land to gold...because of pressure from mom dad too doesn't say anything. Just formal talks...seems I'm the cycle breaker of toxic traits. My own mom makes me feel bad about "I'm not rich as my sibling" and compares her car to my car, house, kid's activities, salary, gc status etc. In a subtle way not openly saying with words. It hurts me. I say something back then hell breaks loose mom and sister teams up slash me. They play wordly smart games pull words out my mouth. That too I sat after severe bashing., they trigger me emotionally. For eg: every Friday night my sibling would call on pretext of catching up, if I don't pick call she would complain to mom. If I pick her call she would definitely say something to hurt me or poke me, ruin my peace for weekend. I understood her pattern and started responding in one word or minimal words. Yet she tops her game to say something to bother like "why you complain about health (I would have max said im tired ) though your older your weight is good sarcasticly etc. " Making gift big to parents though I'm not making big money, like equal share. I openly Said I don't have that much $$ to spend, for that she said "why you go to trips". I really cannot have a conversation about anything because I'm not rich as them end of story. What else can I do to save my peace.