There are many threads that teach ladies how to detect red flags before marrying a guy, but what if the lady has Asperger's? Asperger's is a mild form of Autism (think of Shah Rukh Khan in "My Name Is Khan"). People with Asperger's react very strong to certain things, i.e. they get upset easy and have outbursts. Yet, those with Asperger's are highly functional, i.e. they excel at school and work, but they are POOR at reading human emotions, let alone understand human INTENTIONS. The sad part is, those with Asperger's may think that friends and enemies and ENEMIES ARE THEIR BEST FRIEND. A girl with Asperger's was told to forget about having children because she would not know how to take care of them. And since she won't have children she she doesn't need marriage, she should get boyfriend instead. Males would be happy to have sex without any commitment. And if one boyfriend leaves, she can get another one. She was told that men don't love their wives, they marry because it suits them. After all there are men in history who had thousand of wives, i.e. Akbar. And lot of men don't care for their children unless they get benefit. Remember the paternity case for Late Anna Nichole Smith. Men only fought for paternity because of the $$$ of this "ugly woman" (as one person told this young girl), Anna Nicole Smith's Mom Disputes Attorney's Paternity Claims What if a girl with Asperger's wants to have happy marriage. How does she see red flags if she has this disability? Or does she have to choose between having sex outside of marriage or sleeping in an empty bed? And what is the guarantee her Husband who promised to stay with her uses her and leaves her? How is he any better than some boyfriend who wants ZERO commitment?