Dear ladies for the last couple of days i have been thinking over a problem and thought of sharing it with you.. My dad is very helpful by nature and loves giving advise/suggestions to everyone. He is into banking, so a lot many people ask for his advise and he has developed this habit in a big way. Now the problem is that whenever some discussion happens between my ILs and parents, my dad seems to assume his usual self of giving advise and suggests things to my ILs. At times, there are real big issues being talked about - like purchasing property, investing money etc.. I feel a little scraed when my dad suggests things to my ILs - specially in monetary matters. Ofcourse, my dad's words are based on his best of experience and caution & i would blindly follow his suggestion but i dont know how my ILs would react if ever his advise turned south. My insecurity is all coz of the sensitive nature of this relationship. i dont want to directly talk abt it with my parents coz they might feel that my ILs already said something to me and i am in trouble or something - i dont want to mislead them. But is it reqd to sensitize them with this or m i just over-thinking???