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Shasti poojai for TTC friends.

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by sarasthara, May 3, 2009.

  1. gokusha

    gokusha IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Bambli,

    Believe me, you are going to give us a goodnews in short. You are so lucky to get Murugur in your dream....

    Before i got conceive many times i got holding baby in my dream, later i felt as i always think of that whole day....it has come in my dream...

    Let me tell everyone what has happend to me, truth and dedicated prayers are sure answered and listen by god.

    One Incident still makes me to freeze till date...

    That was time when i was deeply depressed and use to cry alot before god...was observing my shasthi pooja too...


    On dec16th2007 which was my niece's birthday as well my first daughter(who is no more-expired with in 5days after delivering), i was deeply moved and asked god... i don;t know whether you are hearing my prayers and cry...show some sign..atleast drop flower from your picture....

    Then i left to temple and came evening...i totally forget,arranged cake cut for my niece and totake match box,i opened my pooja door..fond that a yellow flower from Garbharakshabhigai picture has dropped...

    I was very happy and thought its a good sign...

    With in a week my period got delay and confirmed....around same time of my first kid's expired date....now we got beautiful (same)daughter blessed by Lord murugu.:thumbsup
     
  2. gokusha

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    Hi Priesh,

    Surely you are going to get a healthy child soon blessed by Lord Murugu.


    Do the vratham with hope and faith..... leave rest at the feet of god.


    All the best...
     
    Last edited: Jul 29, 2009
  3. want2conceive

    want2conceive Senior IL'ite

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    Hi Gokusha.. even your story is very touching. May God bless us all TTC ladies soon with baby.

    Sometimes i used to think that we do mistakes in life unwantedly or by mistake.. so does God count all these? will he bless us inspite of these :hide:.
     
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    Hi Want2conceive,

    Yes you can have milk and fruits till your evening poojai.

    Evening Prepare some Neivadhiyam( i use to prepare Moong.dhal payasam which is famous for Lord Murugar), finish my evening poojai, kavasam reading...dinner i use to have light tiffin.

    All the best.


     
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    Hi Usha.. thanks for clearing my doubts :). can you tell me how you prepare moong dhall payasam. my mom used to prepare but have never noticed how she makes :bonk.
     
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    Hi Dear Want2conceive,

    Dont worry ma, see we don;t know whats god's plan, but we know to dissolve his heart through a dedicated and true pooja..that is only weapon we got .

    Surely when you see a cute smile on your baby's face, all your worries flew thousand miles away...

    We are his kids, no parents feel happy to see his/her kids worrying before them, surely the time they feel he/she can't bear no more...will hold us tightly....

    I asked my mom, why he has given us the kid,everything was normal....finally didn't even allow me to hold once in my hand..
    She said you both(myself and my hubby) are very sensitive,,,,,might be he is preparing u both to be enough bold to face your hurdles in your life ma....take it inthat way...

    Seriously now if we get any tough situation, we both say by smiling...Huh...we have face that terrible situation before, can;t we face this ...


    quote=want2conceive;792121]Hi Gokusha.. even your story is very touching. May God bless us all TTC ladies soon with baby.

    Sometimes i used to think that we do mistakes in life unwantedly or by mistake.. so does God count all these? will he bless us inspite of these :hide:.[/quote]
     
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    Hi Dear,

    Mahanandi » Moong Dal Payasam (Pesara Pappu Payasam)

    You can follow this method.

    You can avoid poppy seeds, if you don;t have, in similar some prefer coconut milk instead normal milk.....you can suit best of your choices.

    Instead of sugar you can use Jaggery also..(which is good for health instead of sugar)

    My Method:

    I dry roast Dhal, pressure cook it with veryvery pinch of salt which will enhance the sweet taste.

    I cook till it get mash, then add finely powdered Jaggery,Elachi powder, stir well till good consistency, then add milk/coconut mik &Ghee roasted Cashe and Raisins lastly, remove it in shortly orelse it get curdles...


     
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    yes what you have faced is the toughest any women can face but God has give you a cute child instead. so may be as your mother said there is also a reason for it. Hope my prayers are answered by God soon. Plz include me also in your prayers so that i too can experience motherhood. Now-a-days whenever i see any pregnant women with babybump my heart just says.. oh when will i experience this.

    Thanks for the recipe usha.
     
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    dear, my tears is flowing from my eyes now..
    just before reading your thread, i was talking with my hubby in the phone, he told me that he dreamt yesterday that we are having a baby boy and taking him to Murugan Temple...

    My hubby was saying that he is very sure that we are going to have baby boy soon... i just told him not to have any expectation.. just continue our prayers and do what we suppose to do and leave everything to God.. Then I logon to my pc and checking this thread and i see your reply... i'm shocked and i feel GOD is trying to say something to me... cause i cried on shasti viratham asking Lord Muruga to bless me a child. Not to penalize me if i have done anything wrong in my previous or current birth. I was asking HIM to show mercy to me..Telling HIM that our life will be more meaningful when we have a baby.
    I beg Him to bless me baby soon.

    I think Lord Murugan is sending His message through my dream and from u and my hubby....

    Thanks !!! I don't know how can i pay back to you guys...
    I have no words to say....

    I'm so sorry for your first baby and u r rite God want u and your hubby to become stronger person. My Hawaii Gurudeva used to say that when we overcome hard situation, actually we are one step nearer to GOD.

    Whenever i ask GOD why He is delaying for blessing me a baby, i always get message that GOD want me to appreciate my baby, and that's why He makes me to wait.. so that i know the value of my baby..

    So i will wait...GOd knows when is the best time for me to hold my baby... I leave everything to HIM. We all just need to have faith on HIM.

    Best Wishes and May God Bless everyone !!
    Thanks again !
     
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    Bambli.. God has confirmed by coming in your husband's dream also that you are going to get a baby. I think as again and again baby boy is coming, you will get a kutti Murugar(baby boy) soon :). All the best dear. Its inspiring for me and i am going to do viradham from August.
     

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