OP, tell ur husband u dont get turned on as he abuses you ... emotional abuse is also disgusting on all levels.... he doesn't take care of your financial exprense n all n still u r doing all housewife duty..n doesnt help in child rearing or househld help... he wont get such a good deal in his next marriage if he decides to go for it so he keeps his old ways in this almost dead marriage
Sure. I am looking for everyone’s opinions even if it is directed towards me. Thank you for the response.
He shares his life, his emotions, his money, his pleasure and sorrows with outsiders. So, he is being truthful to them. Sends them money and gives them royal treatment. exactly this is what
I couldn’t have put it in a better way. This is exactly what’s happening. But he is the one who has separated himself works long hours doesn’t let me come to his room he doesn’t let me chat and I do go to his room he says I’m checking on him. Spends all night on the phone. Day and night at work.
This is definitely not normal. What are your kids ages? Its quite common to be stressed out when they are below 7. If your house is large, try to have kids sleep in separate room and you can sleep alone. See if he comes over or initiates. If not, you should tell him straight away that its not possible to live together this way.