Discussion in 'Married Life' started by g3sudha, Nov 19, 2015.
my husband has not read this yet.
Right on with the rules.
After four years of knowing dh, i think i can follow all of this except 3 ( i like to win you know :rotfl).
1. I learnt to calm down when he is angry after having millions of blown-out-of-proportion fights. I have also learnt that young men in late 20s and early 30s are nothing but angry young men. When he gets mad, I don't speak until he is calm (of course if he is angry because of me). If i am angry, I dont speak either. I find other times to communicate what hurt me (if i do communicate). Sometimes, i will bang pots and pans, so he gets the point. I am a human, afterall.
2, 4 and 5: communication skills. Learn when what and how to say can really improve marriage
3. cant do :rotfl
@g3sudha.. Enna Thideerunu Jyanodhayam ,
after few years of marriage i became philosopherngo.....
Rule No 2: Couldnt do this because MIL would waiting to interfere so avoided initially and which duly became a habit.
Rule No 3: By Default he wins.
Rule No 4: Initially it will be lovingly but when continues.. it tends to become serious and end in a disaster so for me better not to criticize
@g3sudha i would like to add one more to the above list. No secrets between the couple.
This will help the understanding between couple and also build trust one each other which is the golden rule for the happy married life.
very true. depends upon the secret,
Most of these normal things don't strike to new couples.It dawns only after 10 or 15 years after becoming tired of fighting .Everyone starts doing Surya Namaskar only after losing the vision.Better late than never.
You need not create new secrets, but for heaven sake don't open Pandora's box which may result in irretrievable unpleasant consequences.
Make sure your horoscope matches with your mother in law and sister in law. Rest everything will work out then:bonk