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rudness in any form is unjustified

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by sindmani, Sep 14, 2015.

  1. sindmani

    sindmani Platinum IL'ite

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    Being rude to some one or making the person feel down by rude remarks is unjustified. Constant comparing and scolding a person for no valid reason in front of others will lead to anxiety problems for the abused person.The affected person"s self confidence will go for a toss. Respecting every human being or Any living being for that matter is important quality for all.
     
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  2. Oriana

    Oriana New IL'ite

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    Thanks for the post. Very true, needs social awakening.
     
  3. sindmani

    sindmani Platinum IL'ite

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    Thanks for us first fb. It is very encouraging for me to write more. Thanks
     
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    Well said ! Rudeness is negative and cannot be tolerated
     
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    @Sindmani comparison is the worst weapon to kill self confidence.True ,rudeness in any form must be avoided.
     
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    Viswamitra Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Sindmani,

    Insulting or disrespecting others only shows a flawed character. It only brings disrepute to the one who insults or disrespects. My feeling is someone who receives insult should ignore it and show it has zero impact on him/her. Once the person see it impacts the recipient, he/she would be encouraged to do it again and again.

    Viswa
     
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    Thanks for all fbs. Yes @viswamitra sir. U r right. But the problem is many people especially children and youngsters do not have maturity to take rudeness n insults . It affects them. Their self esteem is lowered. They go for self pity mode. Once it happens it will become difficult to inculcate positive thinking in their mind. This leads to various types of anxiety problem , fear and phobia and obssesiveness by thinking unpleasant things that happened in their life. Being un affected to external un pleasant things is the only solutuion to all this. But very difficult to inculcate. Thanks for ur feedback sir
     
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