Remarrying the same person after divorce (asking for a friend)

I think it is not a good idea to get married again.. As even though both are now willing to be with each other it may not last.. What is the assurance the same or a worse situation will not happen again.. Even if they do get marry there will definetly be fights or arguments about the previous marital life and will start blaming each other for the separation.. As the others say I think its just that the girl wants an emotional support.. This may not work good for long time.. Just my thought..

 

I think it is not a good idea to get married again.. As even though both are now willing to be with each other it may not last.. What is the assurance the same or a worse situation will not happen again..?? Even if they do get marry there will definetly be fights or arguments about the previous marital life and will start blaming each other for the separation.. As the others say I think its just that the girl wants an emotional support.. This may not work good for long time.. Just my thought..

 

Instead of getting married again,can't they do live in relationship for sometime and see how things go and then get married.

 

I dont think remarrying the same person is wrong, If both are ready to start a new phase in their life with more understanding & love.. How many love stories we have seen with patch up after break ups.. Here the gal was hesitant for marriage and wasnt prepared for it..

 

May be now she is understanding what life is and missing her ex-hubby's love & affection.. She should be given a chance..

 

Awesome, i would say!

Because, known devil is better than unknown angel.

 

This would also mean no marriage will exist post EMA. We hear people surviving it and some make it happily ever-after. So it can happen.
I hope the couple in question get into (re) marriage with eyes open, and discuss the differences in detail before jumping into this. I believe, both would have learnt their lessons now (unless there is some major reason for the divorce in the first place, where one partner would feel like compromising in the re-marriage).

 

They should first either date or (if its possible at all) live in for at least 6 months to see if things have really changed for the better. The guy should not take this decision emotionally bcos if he gets hurt again this time, he may not recover. Petty issues may arise again and they would need to see if they are able to resolve them peacefully.

Trust is a very important foundation of marriage, he should be able to trust that the girl wont leave him again.

 

I feel theres more to the story. since she made a condition of no parental influence. maybe her mother or her mil.

I would ask your friend the reason why she would make such a demand. if she were really such a witch/immature, she would have demanded that he never meets his parents. but she has not said so. just a brief time where they can strengthen their bond

sometimes emotional families can make a new wife very insecure. it just needs time.